Need some advice ladies...my babies dad comes out to see him twice a week (my rule and he's happy with it too so no judgements please) but he just isn't giving me money for Alex...I've asked and asked and it's always either "I don't know when I get my money" or "they haven't given me my money, I've tried to find out why but I don't know" etc etc....he's getting money from the government because he doesn't have a job and even though he's told me he's looking I know for a fact that he isn't, he's happy sitting at home playing his x box and getting paid from the government. I've been told by a friend that I should cut contact if he isn't going to pay his share of Alex's expenses but my mum doesn't agree with that....I'm not sure what is best, on one hand I don't think my friends advice is good but then again why should he get all the perks and stuff of being a dad when he isn't even going to support his son? so my question is, what do you all think? do you have any advice?