Im so fricken irritated with my fiance! His cousin, who was only supposed to be here for a weekend…
Im so fricken irritated with my fiance! His cousin, who was only supposed to be here for a weekend and has now been here two weeks, is eating all of our food, using every dish he can find, leaving our living room a mess, and smoking weed in the basement when we told him drugs arent allowed in our home! And my fiance isn't doing or saying anything about it! But when i say something im "uptight" or "being bitchy and rude". On top of that ive had zero attention from my fiance since his cousin came over. All they do is talk about guns and play video games. Ive barely received any help with our son at all. He's changed three diapers in a two-week time frame and acts like its the biggest inconvenience to have to warm up some pumped breast milk and feed our son. And then he also wants to get mad when i ask him to keep an eye on our SLEEPING son, so that i can get some things done around the house! And god forbid i need him to watch the baby so i can take a ten minute shower or make something to eat. Hes normally not like this but hes the most selfish man ive ever met when his cousin is here. And now hes talking about his cousin moving in to our basement when we already have his little brother staying with until school is over! Im to the point where ive even thought of moving back to wisconsin and being a single mother since im nit getting any help here and at least there ill have my family around me. Just so frustrated! Two weeks ago he was so excited and talking about how he cant wait to marry me and now i barely exist.
starr·
That's how they get when they have family or friends over. My bf let his long time friend stay with us n they do music. We have triplets and he was always in the garage with him n I'm struggling with the girls. I ask him to watch them for a min n it's a huge ass deal or ask him to do something. I'm glad his friend is gone now he's helping me out more but I still have to do everything cause he works over night
Michaela Nguyen·
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Wow my husband acts a lot like that on a daily basis. Our baby is almost 3 months and he's only changed like 15 diapers at the most and he acts like he did me a HUGE favor every time. And there are times that I go like 3 days with no shower because he's too busy or only thinking about himself. Whats sad though is after using this app I've realized that sooo many women are dealing with the same exact issue. Men are shit.
Katherin Mancilla·
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That is complete bullsh*t hun. Your baby is only a few months old and you don't need stress like that. I don't know about laws in Kentucky, but here if someone has drugs in your house then your kids can be taken away. Even if you aren't the one using them.. and have tried to get them out of your house. He needs to be a man and a father and tell him to move on. I am all for helping family, but you and your baby are his family too and he needs to get his act together. It's hard enough to be a new mom without dealing with all of that. I will keep you in my thoughts and I hope things get better. ❤
Samantha 😘·
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I would be showing my ass. Make the cousin want to leave. I would even threaten to call cops on him for the drugs.