@krysta_craycraft, you need to ask/discuss it with him to make sure you guys are on the same page. But I would say yes of course. If she is going to be at the house and under your supervision you need to be able to discipline (within reason of course)
I am just not used to having a 8 year old aroynd. I'm only at a 4 year old so trying to take care of a 8 year old is different.. lol
also it does not help that her mother let her do whatever her whole life and she lets her listen to whatever music she wants which some of it is very inappropriate. so now my husband and I have to get on her for that and she doesn't understand why we think singing a song with the word "dick" is bad.
I don't tell her what words are bad I just say that song is inappropriate can you change it.
Founa·
Got a 9yr old step daughter
Faith·
Me! I have a 4 year old step son, been his step mom since he was 1.
krysta craycraft·
Мама двоих (4 года, 8 лет)
mine is 8y
she just came back into my husbands life four months ago.
its all so knew to me and sometime I don't know how to deal with the change.
but my question is when is it okay to start disciplining? or should I leave that all up to him to do.
Faith·
@krysta_craycraft, you need to ask/discuss it with him to make sure you guys are on the same page. But I would say yes of course. If she is going to be at the house and under your supervision you need to be able to discipline (within reason of course)
krysta craycraft·
Мама двоих (4 года, 8 лет)
@mommy_faith right.
I am just not used to having a 8 year old aroynd. I'm only at a 4 year old so trying to take care of a 8 year old is different.. lol
also it does not help that her mother let her do whatever her whole life and she lets her listen to whatever music she wants which some of it is very inappropriate. so now my husband and I have to get on her for that and she doesn't understand why we think singing a song with the word "dick" is bad.
I don't tell her what words are bad I just say that song is inappropriate can you change it.