My SO never wants to have sex....Ive always been one to crave it and he never wants to do it. I…

In the same situation girl. It annoys me soo bad

Girl he should love you even more that you carried his child! Have you tried to calmly talk to him about your needs?

you and me both girl. we dont always have it (i want it more) and when we do most times he doesn't really seem into it. We hardly talk about it cause it always becomes an argument. obviously things have changed since having kids I have 2, with my first i was 125 gained 15 pounds however when i got pregnant with my son i was 161 and gained 30 pounds although im down to 175 stil have a ways to go. our men need to get their stuff together i agree it's irritating wanting something and not getting it or when you do get it its not as great cause seems like they weren't enjoying themselves.

girl you wanna trade?lmao jk. My man is the exact opposite he's almost to the point of throwing tantrums. lol. My ob advised me to abstain until after the 12 week mark because sex causes me to have a light bleed for like 4 days. He said my cervix is irritable.lol. @trice4990,

Sex once a week!!! Lucky.

My man works nights 6 days a week so his day off he is tired. I get it once every other week.

But I understand diff things going on. Talk to him about it @trice4990,

@marskhaos,

I'm 7 weeks and we have had sex twice since finding out and I lightly spot but for a hr or two.

@shelbiemrow12, yeah we've talked calmly about it. Everytime he tells me he's going to try to change and he doesn't. So now when we talk about it just turns into me crying😪

@brieguth, since when do girls have to be the ones to attack the men! Even if I do it has to be like 100% my effort! I don't even let him be on top anymore!

@emmajeremy2627, it never even seemed to matter to him how much I weigh, although my post c section tummy seems to turn him off quite a bit but then he complains that I don't get naked...mind you my man is 5'11 and weighs 135...not intimidating or anything😒

@marskhaos, I will SO trade! When I was pregnant it made me even more horny all the time and he wanted to do it even less when I was pregnant

@genesismommy26, at least its work related and not for that fact he doesn't want to😭

@trice4990, talk about it. You shouldn't have to suffer

mine used to do this. and still kinda does. he doesn't really have an explanation he jsut goes through periods of us not having sex at all, then total opposite of having sex every night. I just think they go through weird little phases and then it sucks until it passes

@jsco, he's being like this since around when he turned 30 and he's going to be 32 in march

Oh wow, maybe he should ask a Dr! that's a long time of not wanting anything.

@jsco, no health insurance and I'm sure just like guys don't ask directions he's not going to want to ask why he has no sex drive!

😂 yea that's very true

@trice4990, i don't know he gets in a pms kinda mood. lol. and maybe your man is going through a type of manopause. lol

pun intended;)

@marskhaos, haha right! I just hope it passes one day! Or I'm gonna slip him those little blue pills so he can get excited for a night!

lol if you can get a hold of them then to each their own;) @trice4990,

@trice4990, you are soo right I feel the exact same way. I have had that conversation so many times No change