Plan B wouldn't work if you already know you're pregnant with an oops. I would ask myself if I was financially and mentally able to care for a child. I don't think it's fair for a child to be brought into this world if they won't be cared for properly. Adoption is always an option but of course the system is so flawed and often abusive it makes it almost impossible to feel okay with that decision.
If I had an oops I'd keep our baby. It would be rough but I couldn't bring myself to terminate or give it up. My son would question my trust later on. This is why we budget and save.
cici·
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Are you in a position to have a baby?
Nita 👋·
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not sure @ciraclesmiracle
Ana Victoria·
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Plan B wouldn't work if you already know you're pregnant with an oops. I would ask myself if I was financially and mentally able to care for a child. I don't think it's fair for a child to be brought into this world if they won't be cared for properly. Adoption is always an option but of course the system is so flawed and often abusive it makes it almost impossible to feel okay with that decision.
Nita 👋·
Мама сына (1 год)
no its only been 2 days since oops @abeljames2015
Ana Victoria·
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You have to take the Plan B within 72 hours if I remember correctly. Just so you know how long you have to decide if you are asking for yourself.
cici·
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Like, can you afford a baby? Do you have people who support you, childcare, etc?
Victoria Shreiner·
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If I had an oops I'd keep our baby. It would be rough but I couldn't bring myself to terminate or give it up. My son would question my trust later on. This is why we budget and save.