rosiel49
Rosie
I usually dont post my problems but im in a really bad place. Ive been so depreased lately i cant get out of bed. Ever since my family became homeless, my husband and i have lived separately. I live with my mom and he lives with his parents about a hour and a half away from us. Hes been so extremely unreliable. He doesnt help pay for food or anything. He doesnt even know how to take care of our son if i leave them alone together. When he comes to visit he just starts demanding sex, and when he touches me i feel disgusted. He does nothing else for us. says he loves us but doesnt help. i have to beg for money. yes actually beg on the streets and go door to door for money when he makes 1500 a month. but according to him we never have money for anything. i barely eat because im saving food for my son. i get maybe a meal and a half a day not counting the scraps i eat when my son is done eating. today im furious. i managed to collect about 1200 for the baby thats coming so i can buy stuff for him and he totally goes and tells me i cant buy anything because bills have to be paid. he took all the money! i have about maybe 300 dollars left 😢 i just cant anymore. i feel unloved and neglected. i gave up everything for him and defended him for 3 years and i just cant take it anymore. if it wasnt for my mom id be living in the streets but she has her own financial problems so i cant depend on her to help me much. i just dont know what to do. ive been crying all day
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@rosiel49 I live in ny and get cash food and rent and insurance that we are not married. even when I was living with my dad I got all that u definitely need to go reapply to get the help. if you need help filling out the forms I can help. good luck. hang in there
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@rosiel49 I live in ny and get cash food and rent and insurance that we are not married. even when I was living with my dad I got all that u definitely need to go reapply to get the help. if you need help filling out the forms I can help. good luck. hang in there
@jcbaby i know 😢 its hard to hear but i know its the truth.ive just been denying it for so long
You're welcome good luck mama
he doesnt care about you hun. Hes using you for sex and the money that you do get. As soon as he found out you had that money he probably spent his on things that he wanted. He knows what hes doing and probably is just aiming to make you feel bad for it because he doesnt want to feel guilty. leave his ass in the dust. He doesnt deserve you.
@princesslina i will. im gonna pull on my big girl panties and get this done. i cant deal with it anymore. its been too much. ill for sure keep everyone uodated. thank you so much
yeah i know. thanks for talking with me and being so supportive @akirasisk11
I'm sorry you're going through this but to be homeless and deal with this crap? Nope. Not today. We won't stand for it as you can see. Do what you gotta do and please keep us updated so we can help.
Life just hard..i understand how u feel. i lived with my husband's family for a while cause we were homeless too and they are toxic too...my own family can be pretty toxic.
im stuck living with my dad which has its ups and downs.
but we are working on finding our own place.
This sounds toxic. I'm with everyone else. Leave!
@akirasisk11 @morganmommy79 i think ill do that as soon as possible. we really need the help. id like actual food for once. and i agree...hes toxic and i need to get away. just sad. never thought id be in this place ever.
Separate on paper legally and file for everything. If you divorce, file for child support. Is there anything you can do on the side, maybe babysit? I know it's so hard and very complicated. I feel for you 😔
Everyone is scared of being alone..but sometimes its just the best opinion.
i agree with the rest of these ladies about the welfare thing..take him off your case u should be able to get help after that.
thanks @lissethh and youre right @akirasisk11 i guess id always been afraid of being alone before but at this point i really rather be alone and better my life with my sons
I know it's hard letting somebody u love go but if they are toxic towards your way of life..then let them go.
if u love him,let him go.
cause to me..it sounds like he doesn't give a shit about u guys...
@rosiel49 then go in and take him off your case tell them your really in need i hope you get the help hun😞🙏