I'm all about healing.. I feel like as women we don't feel like we played a part in the ending of out relationships. Just because you were hurt by a man does not mean he or you deserves to be lonely. I tell everyone this: After a bad breakup or divorce take time to heal. If you are a Christian take time to seek God and really unpack the details of the relationship. Please don't be the type of woman that lashes out at the other women for your and his or her failure.

God's love extends to all those who believe and trust him. Even a deadbeat BD or BM. If you are in a relationship with someone else you have no right to dictate or suggest how your ex runs there life.

If you feel like you need to controls others lives. You need to look Introspective for the root cause of your issue. The bible says a good wife is like a crown on a man's head and a bad wife is like rot to a, man's bones.

Consider this: Unresolved issues spill over Into current situations. Bitterness is a seed that grows like a weed and one It's taken root it's take a whole hell of a lot to kill.

When being bitter controlling and petty becomes habitual you also seed those things into your kids.

Be free from these things by loving God and prioritizing toward Christ ( if that's your thing)

Healing in the Name Of Jesus!!