one of my exs had a tongue tie that was never fixed and his mouth was a horrible mess. he couldn't poke his tongue out of his mouth and it messed up his teeth. I'd definitely just get it done while they won't remember
i don't want to do it because of the pain etc but the side affects like speech issues and so on worry me and id rather get them done when he cant remember it. plus we get thrush alot and i get sore alot