I have an 11 year old girl thats really mean to my 4 year old, since she was a baby my oldest wouldn't even look her way. My 4 year old is the biggest sweetheart ever; & my oldest seems to always have an attitude, but this morning she didnt know i was in the living room & i over heard what a bully she is to her sister. Said some really mean stuff. Then i hear my little one say " why are you so mean to me when I just love you." & my oldest responded "you're just annoying " i couldn't bare hearing more.

I have never ever hit my oldest EVER. But when i tried talking to her about how she was being she was like smiling like she didn't care so i slapped her, & took away her phone. This is "ALL THE TiME" shes soo mean.... Anybody ever deal with sister Rivalry or anything like that? Idk how to handle it ? 😞 I have tried talking to her about why she dislikes her so much & she says she doesn't know.