Am I wrong for getting so upset at my child's father for saying I HAVE to work out after I give birth because he doesn't like the "mom pooch". an when i said he was hurting my feelings he responded with i need to be aware of it an work out..... I feel so hurt instead of thinking I'm beautiful for bringing a new life into the world he's more concerned with me loosing weight.... I feel so bad about myself
thank you, yes I'll just stick to worrying about me an the baby an making sure we are happy an healthy @emily526
thank you ! yeah he would die if he had to have the baby. I'll just ignore him an stay positive ! especially since I'll be welcoming my first baby in a few days @adrianasmtz1994
ignore what he said that was really rude to even tell you, he should appreciate the fact that you gave him a child. Our body is beautiful even if we have the baby pouch and maybe some stretch marks its part of having a baby which is a blessing. Don't let ANYBODY bring you down momma. I'm sure if he the one having the baby come out of him he wouldn't be talking mess.
That should be the least of his worries! You will eventually lose the weight. I have 0 time to exercise being a single mom. I've lost most of my baby weight but I definitely need some toning. But if any dude had some shit to say about it I'd tell him off
It's really hard to do everything on your own especially as a FTM. I've had to do it all on my own while my husband is away. But in my opinion, if the father isn't doing his part at all and only brings you down I wouldn't even bother keeping the peace. I would just focus on myself and the baby. You 2 are what matter most!
thank you so much ! yes regardless I'm gonna wait till I get the okay from my doctor. in the meantime I'll just focous on my new baby an getting to know her. an exactly ! I heard the hormones go wild after you have the baby so I'll need all the support possible. thankfully my family are amazing an have been my biggest support system @mommy1987
He hasn't really even stepped up as a dad either.. I've provided everything for the baby so far. he hasnt even had the motivation to get a job the entire time i was pregnant I'm trying to keep the peace between us but he is soooo mean @emily526
He should focus more on becoming a father instead of the way your body looks. 🙄 Maybe he would've rather been the one to carry your baby? lol
That's what I told him too. but he's to focused on having my body be the same. he doesn't even approve of me having a c section if something happens because "the scar is so gross an I'll have a pooch forever" he's so unbelievable @mommy1987
Ugh it's so annoyed. he could of at least said it in a nice way.. but he's so blunt An rude @emily526
You are NOT wrong, he is! He should be amazed at all your body has gone through these past few months.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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