alia
mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

Am I wrong for getting so upset at my child's father for saying I HAVE to work out after I give birth because he doesn't like the "mom pooch". an when i said he was hurting my feelings he responded with i need to be aware of it an work out..... I feel so hurt instead of thinking I'm beautiful for bringing a new life into the world he's more concerned with me loosing weight.... I feel so bad about myself

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adrianasmtz1994
Adriana Martinez ·Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

@aliakr aww I'm very happy for you I hope everything goes great for you and your baby ☺

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

thank you, yes I'll just stick to worrying about me an the baby an making sure we are happy an healthy @emily526

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

Yeah tell me about it. he drives me nuts lol @missjess

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

thank you ! yeah he would die if he had to have the baby. I'll just ignore him an stay positive ! especially since I'll be welcoming my first baby in a few days @adrianasmtz1994

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adrianasmtz1994
Adriana Martinez ·Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

ignore what he said that was really rude to even tell you, he should appreciate the fact that you gave him a child. Our body is beautiful even if we have the baby pouch and maybe some stretch marks its part of having a baby which is a blessing. Don't let ANYBODY bring you down momma. I'm sure if he the one having the baby come out of him he wouldn't be talking mess.

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missjess
Jess·Мама сына-младенца

That should be the least of his worries! You will eventually lose the weight. I have 0 time to exercise being a single mom. I've lost most of my baby weight but I definitely need some toning. But if any dude had some shit to say about it I'd tell him off

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emily526
Emily Mallegni·В ожидании первенца

It's really hard to do everything on your own especially as a FTM. I've had to do it all on my own while my husband is away. But in my opinion, if the father isn't doing his part at all and only brings you down I wouldn't even bother keeping the peace. I would just focus on myself and the baby. You 2 are what matter most!

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

thank you so much ! yes regardless I'm gonna wait till I get the okay from my doctor. in the meantime I'll just focous on my new baby an getting to know her. an exactly ! I heard the hormones go wild after you have the baby so I'll need all the support possible. thankfully my family are amazing an have been my biggest support system @mommy1987

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

He hasn't really even stepped up as a dad either.. I've provided everything for the baby so far. he hasnt even had the motivation to get a job the entire time i was pregnant I'm trying to keep the peace between us but he is soooo mean @emily526

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emily526
Emily Mallegni·В ожидании первенца

He should focus more on becoming a father instead of the way your body looks. 🙄 Maybe he would've rather been the one to carry your baby? lol

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

That's what I told him too. but he's to focused on having my body be the same. he doesn't even approve of me having a c section if something happens because "the scar is so gross an I'll have a pooch forever" he's so unbelievable @mommy1987

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mama_alia
alia·В ожидании первенца

Ugh it's so annoyed. he could of at least said it in a nice way.. but he's so blunt An rude @emily526

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emily526
Emily Mallegni·В ожидании первенца

You are NOT wrong, he is! He should be amazed at all your body has gone through these past few months.

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