You've had a perfect pregnancy? You had a baby who was 41 weeks and healthy? You went into the hospital for labor and was fine? You had people who didn't do their job correctly? You were rushed into an emergency c section? Had your baby born not breathing for 14 minutes inside you? Then another 17 outside you? Did you have to stay in a hospital for 5 days not able to move and watch as all these other moms got their babies and you still had no idea what was going on to yours? Did you finally get to meet your baby after a few days and hold him/her for the first time and last time? Did you have to make a choice to take a helpless body off machines when there shouldn't have been a choice in the first place? Did you have the nursery completed finally a day before? Were you finally thinking life was going to be great for once? No. You don't know because you didn't go through what I have. Nobody has. Nobody has the exact same story. I font believe in god. I don't believe there was a damn reason for my daughter to be taken. I'm sick of people like you who don't get it and still want to say the same rude things. It's people like you who make others more depressed than we already were. I have now developed PTSD. I have a "high risk pregnancy" and now I'm being blamed for my daughters death because the hospital wants to cover their asses. Please don't tell me there was a stupid ass reason. Because there isn't one besides the fact my world.was taken from me because people can't do their damn jobs.

@mommabear.j, it's better then holding in the anger and hurt. What ever religion you believe in , a common understanding is everything happens for a reason. Even in science. it's cause and effect. Hence her loss happened for a reason. I understand your view of sounding heartless. But whether now or a couple of years from now she will understand the lesson learned. I know because I've been threw the same. It hurts you blame your self and others , you even start removing your self from people because of it. But not realizing surviving something like that gives you so much strength .

I'm so sorry for your loss. :( I wish you peace. Sending you a hug!

@lovebitten91 how can you tell someone who just lost their baby it wasn't their time?? that's really rude and that's definitely not comforting to hear, cmon now....smh -_-

@xmellybeanx You are so very welcome hun ! I am sure it is .. it has to be one of the hardest things to ever deal with in life and I can't imagine what you been going through . But I will say prays to the universe for you . You do hear her becuase she is still with you in your heart , mind , and soul !!! don't let no one tell you any different. Yes she would want her mom to keep going and to continue to be strong for her. Your doing a great job hun 💕

@ayden_mommy Thank you so much. It is the hardest thing to actually do. I have developed PTSD and some days I'll wake up thinking she's still in me or I hear her. Like, idek how I manage. But I do it for her. She'd want me to keep going no matter what❤

@xmellybeanx I'm so sorry for your lost hun ! I do not even know the half of what you are going through . I just want to say that you need to be strong and you are strong becuase I myself couldn't hold on dealing with what you are going through so I really do commend you ! I also wanted to say that no matter what you will never forget your child so don't lose those memories . Its okay to cry and miss her hopefully one day you will see her again and she can be your angle looking over you right now . Be brave and the great women that you are hun . .. I'm here if you need to talk 💕much love 💕💕💕

@lovebitten91 How can you tell me it wasn't my time? Try losing your baby at 41 weeks, no health problems. nothing wrong until the hospital made a mistake. try having them then try to blame you afterwards. It wasn't my time. When it is my friends coming to me bitching about their pregnancy then yea.

If it was your time ... you would have had your baby. The universe guides our path with no mistakes. And nope even when they are your friends it's not your concern how they handle THEIR children and lives.

@lovebitten91 It was my time tho. The hospital took that from me. When they are my so called friends and they know what I've been through, then yea it's my concern.