OK ladies I need advice for a friend of mine. she's been trying to conceive for maybe 6 months or so maybe longer and her husband is out of town due to being in the army. so she wants to know if there is anything she can do to speed up the process of getting pregnant. like how can she get her body ready for when he's home? she can't monitor her period because like mine it has always been irregular. she missed her period (it hasnt came on since beginning nov she said) and she feels like it will be coming on soon (having mild cramping) and she has some spotting which is not normal for her period and had a lot of white discharge but her Dr did a urine test and it said neg again so they did blood test on her and are waiting for the results. I just wanted to see what other mothers or mothers to be think so if they say she isn't pregnant she can start doing some other stuff to get the ball rolling.