I know my friend means well in giving her advice on how me and my husband should handle my son's potty training but it also pissed me off because my son wears underwear during the day but at night he still has accidents so we'll make him wear a night time pull up and tell him if he needs to pee get up and go potty but he's only done it like 3 times. My friend was down my throat about it because her son is almost 3 and he wears draws 24/7 and never has accidents, I was like okay that's nice not every child works at the same pace. I have learned that children will do things at their own pace, my oldest wasn't comfy on the potty until 3 and my youngest son just turned 2 and he never wants a diaper on so he is currently being potty trained and he's doing great.