Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Question: What would you do if you found out your husband was talking to whores from his past that he was with?? #asking for a friend
😂😂😂😂 so my momma talked to my ex about the divorce and why he's putting it off and he said his intentions were to use Brinley to get me for adultery.... Bitch we were LEGALLY separated for a while before I even got with Joseph and even longer before I got pregnant with her. But like i told my mom to tell him, go ahead and get me for adultery it doesnt do anything if i really wanted to I could fight him on it because he is truely the one that committed adultery but I just want that divorce finalized now. Sorry ladies I figured those of yall I talked to earlier would get a laugh out of this
Science! My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Justina·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I'm in agree with@sarahbellee he's not worth it hon and I also agree with @mommy_faith . would you want your child seeing and hearing this and thinking it's okay? then he grows up thinking it's okay to treat women like that and he does that to some girl?
Sarah ❤·
В ожидании первенца
honest answer... I'd leave him. If he's so up and ready to "smash a hot chick" he doesn't have respect for you, and why would you want to be with someone who had no respect for you? Think about it this way, if you did the same I'm sure he would leave. girls always make excuses and say "well guys will be guys" but I can 100% say that's not true. Real men need only their partner and nobody else. my partner would agree with that.
Monique·
Мама сына-младенца
@sarahbellee, what would u do v
📿👑Justice Burnette👑📿·
Мама дочки-младенца
@moniquebatista I know it's hard but you should leave him... If he's gonna continue to do it, don't put up with it. You deserve more.
Sarah ❤·
В ожидании первенца
I agree with @mommy_faith. I was that way with alcohol when we first got together and it did nothing but make me annoying and possessive and always uptight. I realized it was unfair, and that if he wanted to grab drinks he should be able to. However he doesn't get drunk, and rarely ever gets even tipsy (maybe once a year, at family party) so I think you should open your mind about the alcohol as long as he's responsible. As for the lying... Hell no. I would raise hell lol. Trust and honesty is so so SO important to me. The way I see it (and my husband also) is that if either one of us needs to hide something, it's really bad and there will be consequences. Even my husband says, there's absolutely no reason why an ex should be in your life, and there's absolutely no reason to hang out with the opposite sex. I just think it's shady.
Monique·
Мама сына-младенца
@1st_time_wonder, what do u think I should do
Monique·
Мама сына-младенца
@mommy_faith, what do u think I should do
📿👑Justice Burnette👑📿·
Мама дочки-младенца
I agree with @mommy_faith That shit tears my nerves apart. I don't put up with that. My hubby knows I don't put up with it too. 👌 So don't put up with it, because he's only gonna end up ripping your heart to shreds
Faith·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
So I am going to be honest. I think expecting him not to drink at all is unfair and unrealistic. I don't care for drinking but even I need a shot every once and a while and deserve to have one. But you are definitely not being stupid about all the other stuff. If there is no trust, then you have nothing. He lied multiple times and is still lying, which tells me that he will always lie. I don't put up with that shit. I am really sorry you are going through this.