It's sad when you've asked someone to help you out a dozen times and then they only do it when it's convenient for them and not you. For instance, taking the dogs out in the morning so you don't have to. Just because you are at home all day taking care of a crazy toddler, you deal with the dogs all day. Something so simple. But, yet, you get stuck doing it. I don't care if you "provide". I provide too, not just YOU.