Amanda hayden
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Amanda hayden ·Мама дочки (8 лет)

Have any of you mommy's during your pregnancy start to wonder if you did the right thing in going through with this pregnancy? I'm starting to doubt and question myself and wonder if I made the right decision 😢I feel like a horrible person to even be thinking this but the thoughts just won't stop coming. So overwhelmed 😭

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zealous
zealous·Мама сына (9 лет)

i felt the same but dont worry once u meet her everything will be okay it gets better

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mandaaleexo
Amanda hayden ·Мама дочки (8 лет)

@dontbsad, thank you 😊

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Dominique ·Мама дочки (12 лет)

make you and your baby proud

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dontbsad
Dominique ·Мама дочки (12 лет)

ok all you can do us set goals for you and your baby well you have the help you should go back to school get your GED then try getting a job I'm not saying it's going to be easy but you have to push yourself for your baby you have to push your feelings to the said and make you a draft your baby proud you have to be strong and I'm not saying don't cry cry if you have to but keep going do something about your situation every day and you will see change it takes time hard work and dedication you can do if you want nothing us stopping you but you

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mandaaleexo
Amanda hayden ·Мама дочки (8 лет)

@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom,

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mandaaleexo
Amanda hayden ·Мама дочки (8 лет)

@dontbsad, @b3autifulm3ss, everything I dreamed of just isn't what it is! The baby's father is not exactly in the picture. Since I can remember ive always wanted my baby to grow up and have a childhood like I did. This baby's father is back and forth. (He's 35 and had two kids by his ex fiancé). He just seems so unstable to me right now. I'm a huge bitch to him when he's around me and I don't know why I guess maybe it's because I have so much resentment and anger towards him. Then I feel guilty afterwards when he's gone. I'm living with my parents (I'm 24 - just getting back on my feet - I had a very bAd drug problem - please no judging! I've been clean since October 2015 😁) my parents are buying everything for this baby and they shouldn't have to. That should be for me and the baby's father. I am so grateful that they are helping and supporting me don't get my wrong I just have all this guilt. Baby's father says it's cause they want to. Which I have mentioned this to my mom and she says it's her grandbaby and she will do anything/whatever she is capable of for this baby. Huge part of me believes it's because they know the baby's father is very unreliable and because I have nothing. I don't even have my high school diploma. I feel like I am already setting such a huge bad example for my daughter and she isn't even here yet 😭😭😭I just want the best for her..sorry for the long message but j have to get this out and I don't have many people to talk to 😢

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kimberly_preemie-mom
Kimberly ·Мама четверых детей

I did, especially as it drew closer to the end of the pregnancy. I think I broke down around 37 weeks and cried. I think it's normal. You'll see it was a good decision though.

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dontbsad
Dominique ·Мама дочки (12 лет)

awwww I felt like that with my first baby and I wouldn't change anything and now that I'm pregnant with baby number 2 I still felt like that when I first found out we was expecting and it's only cause you just want things to fall into place tour not a bad person things will fall into place little by little rake one day at a time you will see

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b3autifulm3ss
Michelle·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)

@mandaaleexo absolutely! my son is going to be 2 when this one is born and i doubt myself sometimes

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