I question why a man would have to find people to have sex with whole they can just ask their wife.…

I question why a man would have to find people to have sex with whole they can just ask their wife. I know with me lately I haven't wanted it but it doesn't mean to go search for it. I hate being pregnant again cause it just takes my time from him and focus on another thing rather than my husband. I'm mad but I'm not mad entirely. I know what I've been doing and I will fix it. but I'm gonna talk with him and see how we can improve because this happened before. I'm just disgusted that the idea got in his mind. I'll be praying cause God knows where we are and what is in our hearts.