OK ladies I'm needing to vent so please bare with me on this one OK? well my husband and I have been married almost 3 years and have a soon to be 2 year old daughter and this past year has not been kind to us at all we have dealt with cheating/love affair,drugs,him being not being home a full month since June cause of his stupidity, etc....well that he's actually home and we are working on things we decided to start trying last month and well I'm nauseated feeling among other symptoms and he says the other day and now that if it happens that's great but he says he doesn't want more kids yet til he has a better job....I'm thinking to myself why the fuck have you been fucking me during my fertile Windows for and now that I might be you gonna say some shit like this after telling me the other day the fugly nasty ass skank whore bitch you had an affair with you still love her and are in love with her and I might be pregnant and I'm so close to screaming at the top of my lungs of how I feel bout everything and the whole I really don't want more kids thing happened last night while at his brother's house cause his girlfriend showed us a picture of her pregnancy test and said his brother and I have baby fever and that he doesn't want more kids yet.....Im so hurt and pissed and sad....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
School fees
Having an intense debate on Facebook about school fees for public school. I'm in the "stop whining about school fees and stop having kids if you can't afford them" camp and there is the other camp of "free school is a constitutional right! It's bull s*** we have to pay anything at all".
Would you be mad?
My brother and his ex don't have a great relationship. They have joint custody of their 6 year old DD and my brother gets her every other weekend and 5 weeks in the summer. Both he and his ex are married now (they were never married to each other).
Teachers - can I just say
I'm not overpaid thank you!
He definitely is not worth all this pain! i wish you the best of luck