Eek advise??
Since having my baby girl, ive had on tap support from my mum as i live with her and baby daddy wants nothing to do with us; for the first time, she is out tonight and im terrified, between 6-8:30, baby tends to feed or scream constantly, it generally helps as mum takes her and manages to settle her as she can smell the milk on me. Really worried i will get all flustered and get really stressed,
Mum doesn't know what time she is home and is going to be drinking too 😩😫
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babies did kick off on an evening its usually down to colic. hettie had it awful untill maybe 9 weeks. was awful really was but getting stressed and panicked ect will make it worse as baby senses it. just chill and as lady above says walk around with baby it distracts them and settles them x
I have almost the same at home with my little one. Have you been out and about with baby on your own? If you have, just think back to those times and how you are able to cope without getting stressed out ☺ she's your baby and you'll be okay!! Just know when she's crying that it won't last forever and just go through what you would normally do when your mom is there! When I've been with Casper on my own i do feel like it comes almost naturally but when I feel myself getting stressed I walk into another room with him to continue to settle him and it seems to make me less stressed again - not sure why! Just my experience with it but if you need any support just message me tonight ☺ you'll do amazing, you're her mommy and you are more than capable 💜
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Just take a breath & rememeber she's your daughter. Your the best person to soothe her. Max would have 2/3hrs in an evening he'd be inconsolable, then again early hours of the morning. As the others have said try & stay as calm as possible, as when you get worked up they get more worked up. If it gets too much then lay her down somewhere safe while you pop to the bathroom for a minute or 2 to calm down & collect your thoughts (or cry as I did a few times 😂) It's always scary when you have baby by yourself the first time but once you've done it you'll wonder why you were ever worried about it lol