@raquely, that's another good point, seeing your first borns reaction to them being a big brother or sister

@mrzvanga, right that's all understand able too my niece is as well a hand full too. It makes me not want to have girls at all. I love her to death and that is why I really hope she will be my only girl cause I can give her back to her parents 😆

Then once our kids in school we think like really wanna start over I just went thru all that like now my son will b 8 nd I'm always thinking like to start over diapers wipes clothes toys crying being up Every two hrs r so man girl makes me think double I'm to old for that shit please I can't keep up with my niece nd she just turn 2 omg 😲 smh 🤦‍♂️ now DNT get me wrong they do adorable precious lil ones I would love to have another but like I said to start over I rether have them close in age so I'll b done all at once then all go to school at once all do everything at once help around the house

Yep that's y I rether have them close

@mrzvanga, hmm that's actually a good point my sisters and I are 2 years and 4 years apart but their closer cause they closer in age. And it's always those two

TBH idk I wanted to have them bck to bck give birth nd get pregnant give birth nd get pregnant I guess maybe they would grow together b able to bond more not be so alone -- me nd my brother r 9 years apart nd I tell u it was a pain in my butt for me bcuz one ppl gave him all the attention not me he came first not me so I figured if my bbys r close in age they all small and there r first at the same time no matter wat happeneds bcuz there close in age

@mrzvanga, aww I'm so sorry 😢 thank you very much for your input in this, can I ask why you would have wanted your babies that close born together?

Lost 3 and they were all 11 months apart including my son

If I could I would have had my kids bck to bck but it didn't work

@raquely, thank you when you put it like that it does sound like the better idea to wait