Honestly... I dont get it either. Believe me if the tables were turned he would be outta there quick. I dont believe that "its hard for men to be faithful" thing. We r all tempted. Some choose to be faithful and some choose not to. My first husband cheated and I left his ass immediately. Now um married to a good man. But not for nothing tho...as much as I love him... I told him if he chooses to cheat, he is volunteering to end what we have. I mean it...and he knows it.