Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Everyone told me I couldn't spoil my baby when there so little .. but he only wants to sleep in my arms or near me ... Did I spoil him already ? Not that it matters I gave up my awesome career to dedicate my time to him as a Sahm but just wondering ... #1month
Smh so my mama and boyfriend have a car but niether one of them will give me a ride to the children hospital for my son. Both them talking about they know what’s going on with him? Smh I swear I already talk to on call doctor & they told me take him to er. I know my child don’t have no stomach virus. I know something is seriously wrong with my son.
So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to me, picked him up and signed him out. While my man was still working out, I walked straight up to the general manager and told him I wanted to speak with him in his office. We reviewed the cameras together and my son was IN FACT not doing anything wrong but playing and she grabbed him by his arm for NO REASON and slammed him on the ground and he was on the ground for a good minute before getting back up. Right then and there was when we were called to come get him because he was supposedly throwing heavy toys at kids (which he never does). The manager apologized and then told us he would talk to her... what should we do?
i think I'm going to ground my son there's this 15yr old that hangs out with him mind you my sons 7 and I see my son across the street with 2 kids his age and like three 15 year old when I was 15 I was not trying to hang out with kids anywhere near that age I have told my son not to once before and the boy now knows but sneaks and hangs out with my son teenagers are up to no good idk if he smokes and will try to make him or what ever I just sent his steldad over there to get him...and this 15 yr has a brother my sons age he asked to sleep over a few weeks ago I thought he meant his little brother but nope the 15 year old wanted to I said no I would have to ask there dad(step dad) but I wasn't really going to and he came over anyways stayed ate and k called his mom told him he invited himself over and took him home he's like 6'0 I'm pregnant (7-8months at the time)and he was following me every where in the house as I was trying to clean if go in my room he'd knock on the door and say my son wanted me when he did not that made me very uncomfortable glad I took him home my sisters and I think he may be autistic because of some of his ways the day after I took him home he came over when my kids were still sleeping my bf told him they were gave him his football he left and he came back again after my bf went to work with xbox 360 games mind you we don't have one and I told him that the day before then came back again with a blanket and said his mom wasn't home I said I'm sorry but we can't have company can't you go to your friends or cousins house 😒 then how did you get your blanket I was thinking in my head....idk I've seen him hang out with kids his age like right now. now back to my son he has started lying when I catch him in the act even if he sees me watching the park is directly in front of my house so he needs to stop the lying hate grounding but he can't go outside anymore today he always ends up with that kid...😡 my dad agree he shouldn't be by him same with sister and bf n friends
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Not all judges are crap never loose hope I'm going through it and I still have hope!!
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I thought things would be easier the older my son got but listening to what you go through just made me lose hope @kateyez5
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
She is a major B!!!!
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Smh I would ask to be assigned to another judge that's crazy, the judge we go to everytime is pretty fair about everything she tries to be neutral and I believe if my son was old enough to explain his experience away from home she would listen, your judge just sounds like a bitch @kateyez5
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
The judge spoke to my kids as well but she then says I don't listen kids where they prefer to go I'm like so why ask then
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Where do you live? @kateyez5
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I have an attorney courts just suck here. They take them now because my oldest is 14 and not having her phone taken lol
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
wow well in that case they wouldn't be going anywhere they can't use their phone since they don't want to do anything about it I would. I fit got to that point though I'd just get an attorney involved they seem to listen to what they have to say over the parents which is dumb but they'll go as far as talking to the children to see what they want and how they feel about the situation, my son was only 1 when that took place so of course he had no say so smh @kateyez5
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Yea it's court ordered too for them to be able to contact me but the court dies jack about contempt smh
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Yea he knows better than to take anything from my son he knows I will call the police on him so fast and take him back to court like I've dine several times because he wanted to be a jack ass and ignore me when I'm trying to check on my son so now it's court ordered that I get to talk to him everyday. And oh if I'm paying for my son's phone I wish he would put his hands on it for any reason @kateyez5
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Mine use to have phones taken not allowed to contact me while there. And the reason things are like this is because I don't say anything if I say anything about it then it's o I want them or I'm taking you back to court just drama so I just let it be.. because they don't want to be there
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
it is a joke, I'm just ready for my son to be old enough to use a cell phone or to tell that man he does not want to be at his house. At least their father can take a hint and backs off. The man I have to deal with likes to fight for time he does not utilize well and he really sucks at taking care of my son. And he refused to talk to my son for 3 months because he didn't want any contact with me smh. @kateyez5
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Oh I have permission to speak with my son through skype everyday it's court ordered... this will be his 2nd night there and I'm trying to wait and see what he has for my son on Christmas. the little boy is 8 though and honestly I don't feel comfortable with him sharing a room with my son because the adults aren't vigilant. And just last week he asked me what my son would like for Christmas.... if you were a real father to him you wouldn't have to ask. @j.beltran
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
No it's not the ex has seen them 2 times since oct of last year... texts every few weeks to act as if an attempt is being made to see them... the kids are older and they don't want to be bothered..
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I know all too well family court is a big joke.... smh
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
is it any better with your children veing older? @kateyez5
Ashton·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
It really is and what makes it worse is that you can go to court and tell them these things are taking place and they won't do anything about it. He always wants to go to court to get time with my son but doesn't do right by him I really don't get it. My son does not have to struggle or feel like he's out of place ever and I don't want him to. And my son is potty trained and this boy has my son in pull ups because he never went to buy him underwear smh I hate it @kateyez5
Jennifer·
Мама троих детей
that is sad. you need to try to check in with the father and see if things are okay. how old is the other boy? my two boys one is 14 and the other is 5 my bfs ex put my 14 year olds presents out but wouldnt give my 5 year old any because she wanted him to believe they came from santa. it was stupid and made no sense. but could that be what they are doing? possibly? either way i hope your baby is okay and has a good christmas.
Kat ·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Gurlllll I've been there still going through stuff like that smh it's sickening