My husband absolutely irritates me. We have his little girl every weekend and it seems like he keeps finding reasons to spend less and less time with her. Today he has found any and every reason to go outside and leave her with me. Is it bad that I am not okay with that? He acts like it's rude of me to get onto him for not spending time with her. It's to the point now she barely wants anything to do with him.
I agree I am married and 38 weeks pregnant we now have custody of my husband kids cause his kids mom is a dead beat. But he works every other weekend so this is his holiday off and so I am like good I get to sleep in today. i don't get much sleep at night. His ass going to say I have to go in tomorrow to finish a job oh do you now. Well you must be taking them with you I haven't had a break from taking them to school every,morning cause we don't live in the school district to picking them up everyday, cooking dinner, cleaning the house non stop, yelling 24/7 bc they don't clean up behind themselves and he don't say anything half the time. It's ok to make him do it bc of not you will be come overwhelmed.
I love her like she is my own. Always have. Its like he makes me out to be the bad guy when I spend all kinds of time with her and I've know him since before she was born so I've been in her life her whole life. We were good friends when he was with her mom. Now we are married with a baby on the way and I worry he will be like this with our little girl
Girly, one I give you props for being with someone that has a kid already. And two its not bad at all that you get annoyed because it is his daughter and if he only gets to see her on the weekend he should be spending as much time with her as he could. You are pregnant its not you responsibility to watch her the while time just you. You guys should all hang out as a family. You have every right to be annoyed. Just make sure she feels loved by you because it sucks feeling unwanted by a parent knowing from experience.
I stay overwhelmed. Between him his little girl baby momma drama and his mother I never have a break. His mother still talks to his ex and tells her she loves her. It's just constantly something. Plus on top of all of that I am trying to pack all of our stuff because we are getting a new house in less than a month. I'm honestly at my breaking point anymore.