Went to see the movie Sing with my 4 year old daughter, two nieces and SO. But when we left the 8 year old started in yet again how we were just going to go home and NOT play games this time around its late. Boy she threw a fit like you kidding me right now. I don't know how to make her stop being so darn ungrateful. Any ideas?
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no problem you can always talk to me @momma2017
Thank you so much @paisleysmom9 you did help it's just exactly what I needed to put a stop to this. I don't want her turning my 4 year old into a monster...it would make feel like a failure. Thanks again hun.
kids today do not understand the meaning of a good butt whooping. They think they can get away with anything under God. I was raised by butt whoopings. Don't let her walk all over you. It's time to put your foot down. You can't be going through this Every time you two take her out somewhere. and the 8 year old is setting an example for the 4 year old so it needs to stop. I hope I helped if you need to talk I am here. @momma2017
Your right @paisleysmom9 I'm so fed up with all of it. I can't just have the "Talk" I can't just take it away because it won't faze her. So I'm going to be talking to my SO and see who we can do. p.s. he's all for whoppins. it was how he was raised.
I understand and it's embarrassing and you have people looking at you and judging I know what you are going through and I know it's very hurtful and disrespectful it is time to whoop her butt its not okay for an 8 year old to be throwing tantrums. And I know nobody wants to whoop there kids cause you feel terrible afterwards but there is a line you and your SO need to draw it will only get worse until you lay down the laws. @momma2017
@paisleysmom9 I'm clueless really. I'm so desperate I'm willing to go to classes or talk to anyone. It's everytime we go out she is all giddy and happy and thankful it was a good time. BUT as soon as she asked for something else already knowing the answer because we go over the expectations she flips..acts up is a demon it's nerve racking.
My mother would take me to the side and have the "Talk". If that didn't work it was you lost the privilege next time and if that didn't work it was a good old fashion whoppin.
let me ask you this when you were her age and you disrespected your mom or an adult what did your parents do?
All my daughter (valerie) was trying to do is talk about the movie hold her hand offer her a drink and she got all pissy. Knocked her away..like are you serious. I've never felt so much pain from.someone then Hailey the 8 year old.
@paisleysmom9 I take her off to the side and explain how the night will go so she already knows what is planned and expected. But she figures if she cries wolf to my SO she will get her way. He doesn't give into her, and on top of that she takes her frustration out on my 4 year old who was a saint tonight I was super proud of her.
I'm thinking I shouldn't take the 8 year old anymore she just makes the date night worse. I do agree with you she is Old enough to know better. It just disgusts me the way she acts like she never gets anything and plays the victum.
@momma2017 I would say she is old enough to know right from wrong. what do you normally do when she acts like this?
for a week at a time. when they come from their mothers they are lost. it's like she does everything for them and they forgot how to wip their own butt. No Joke.