I just want him to start helping out with our 5 month old daughter. It's so hard doing literally everything for her by myself while he gets to play video games.
I don't know what to do anymore. I ask and ask and he tells me yeah yeah I'll do that and nothing happens. I had a nervous break down yesterday. He sees that I'm struggling everyday. He sees all my anxiety and antidepressants medication I take just so I don't go off thr deep end... I'm a new mom and a new stay at home mom. I'm alone 80% of the day and I'm so depressed.
I have no family where I live and we can't afford daycare/baby sitter. It is just me and him....so why can't he help me? I know he supports us financially and I appreciate everything he does but when can I sleep in? When can I take a bath without a baby crying? When can I just sit down and watch tv and not have to worry about getting up to get her if she wakes up or needs to be fed? I need a break too..... I don't feel like I should have to ask for him to help. :(
being a stay at home mom is a hard job too. I am in the same boat im alone 90% of the time no family/friends