Do you ever confuse being a mom being a wife? I feel like I'm losing being a wife and a woman. Warning : TMI me and my…

I know what I need to do it's hard to just do it though, it's really hard to let go

Yes, follow his advice.

@labunni I am anxious/worried about nearly every thing my husband says I need to stop worrying and let go and just go with the flow. I don't drink though.

Maybe you need to clear your mind. You sound anxious. Have a drink before.

@mommy.to.sterling I try to let go and just enjoy how it feels but I think I'm focusing so much it backfires

@labunni I know a good part of the problem is me. when ever we have sex I usually want him inside me right away instead of waiting til I get close to orgasm. I'm really impatient for some reason. I'm the one who doesn't let him finger me. and I'm bad at telling him what works and what doesn't.

Sounds like he doesn't know what he's doing and it's not you.

@kambam thank you so much for your comment. part of the reason I'm reaching out for help is I know my sweet husband feels bad he can't get me to orgasm.

if you feel you can't be blunt in the comments please chat me.

No worries :-) being direct helps. I haven't figured out how to successfully do that. even then I'd rather not because I used to have an addiction to masturbating. I've been able to overcome it and get my temple recommend back.

@mommy.to.sterling I've been able to get myself to orgasm and my husband once got me really close but I have a hard time being patient and let him help me. I struggle to communicate effectively how to help me. and because of past issues I avoid masturbating.

life is very short. you deserve to feel good and also your husband would love to see you have that joy. not only is orgasm fun and good for you but its also like a little gift for your partner 💑