@noahsma13, it's pretty much the same. But he got mad cause I told him to stop fucking on his phone an pay attention to her an ugh

I remember that feeling after my son was born for awhile, The first year and half after he was born. My fiancé and I all we did was argue. It was a huge adjustment being a mother him being a father, and then us trying to find away to connect and be together. It's overwhelming at first. I'm not saying your relationship issues were like mine. I'm just saying, communication is a huge thing in keeping a relationship together. An realising who you both were before your beautiful child came into this world, is not who you are now. Your a mother and he's a father and that in itself is a huge thing. It's just us as human beings think having children is so common that we don't take a step back to realize what that truly means. I wish you all the luck in the world, I hope something I said helped and If not at least you knew someone cared to write this incredibly long message. lol

Might need some alone time