it took me 8 months. lol

@nicolerawrr, that's a great idea!

@jasminebowman, I have told myself when he wants me to meet his daughter I'll let him meet mine :)

Don't rush it, a new relationship is always very exciting and in the beginning it always seems perfect.

I'd hold off introducing him to your child for a few months since you guys are just getting to know each other

I have a friend who dates a lot and introduces everyone to her son and it really confuses him.

@eryka616, I'm going to message you :)

So I know this has nothing to do with all that but omg you have a new guy!!! Yay!!!

I think that would be a great time for everyone to meet everyone. His daughter could have someone to play with although your baby is smaller than her I bet they would still have fun. And my husband had a problem sleeping at night. Said he had too much room in bed and he felt so alone at night. He just wanted someone he could hold and someone he could wake up to. Give someone a good morning kiss before work. It got to the point that when me and my husband got married that short few weeks we shared a bed he went back to the military and literally had to ask for sleeping pills so he could get rest. My husband has been out of the military for a year and a half and he still will wake up if he doesn't feel me in bed and can't go to sleep unless he knows I'm in bed with him. Military people get very lonely while their in the military. Life is completely different. The simplest things such as sleeping alone is hard for some. Being in the military emotionally and physically hard why a lot of guys just want to find someone to settle down with to enjoy the simplest things such as having a meal with a spouse or laying in bed with someone or even just to laugh and share memories with someone.

@babynessa, I worry that maybe I just want a companion and I'll rush into things but everything was just so comfortable with him. Yes I did spend the night with him (bad I know) but he was worried about me not texting or calling him back :P and he cuddled all night I mean we went to sleep in the same position we woke up in. Normally I toss and turn all night

@babynessa, his daughter (she's 5) is coming to visit him until January 6th so I'm thinking about waiting to see if he wants me to meet his daughter and we can all meet together maybe?

Well he told me he wants to cuddle with somebody every night and it's strange because he told me he never sleeps in his bed because he gets lonely sleeping alone. :(

My husband said pretty much everything your guy said. He wanted to settle down, have a family, someone to come home to, someone to share the good and bad times with. Too perfect was the same thing I said about my husband back when we first started talking.

For me I'm different I got engaged to my husband and only knew him via phone and skype for about a week. He was all the way across the United States. Meet him in person oh a year and a half later he left to the military. He then came to visit me again for Christmas and thats when we got married. We didn't have kids envolved then. But you'll know when it's the right time. Just follow what your heart says and introduce him to her when you know he's serious about you.

@babynessa, I spoke to him about it last night and he says he's ready to settle down and just wants to cuddle and you know everything ever girl wants to hear :P but he said he's done with casual relationships

He sounds almost too perfect right now

@babynessa, he's been in 8 years but we've only been talking about a week now

Went out once

Sorry a guest pass is for the day the front gate said I can only come on base 2 times a month with a guest pass so he'll need to get a sponsorship with his and my name so I can go on as much as I want.

As far as guest pass you get those when you enter a base. You show your ID tell the soldier at the front gate you need a guest pass your visiting a fellow soldier and they will direct you to the building you would get one. Usually right next to the main gate. There you go show your ID again tell them who your visiting and they will give you a day pass. I mean thats how it works for Army bases. My husband was never allowed to just give me a pass I had to go get one myself as I entered the base.

If he's the military then it's a little different. Most military men if their not in the phase of job training still. They are looking to settle down have someone to come home too. I've been around a lot of military men since my husband is former military and going back into the service soon. How long have you guys known each other?

@babynessa, when does a relationship start being serious :P

I mean I was thinking when he gets me a guest pass onto base?

(He's a marine down in Pendleton)

He told me last night he didn't want me to leave and I could bring my baby over and stay at his house while he's at work but that's really fast so I made a joke about next year

When the relationship is serious. I wouldn't want to introduce someone to my daughter just for that person to walk out of her life.