not my husbands mom none of his sisters cousins. .aunts..none of mine...well the point is..only 2 of…

if it makes u feel any better my mother in law hates me she's never met anyone of her grand kids

@mommyof42016140 :) thanks..shes so in love with her ONE other grand kid hes 3 and shes always with him and asking fkr him to go over their. .and she picks him up and takes him to daycare and buys him stuff ..makes me feel like my baby isnt as good as him...in her eyes

that's how my mom is with my 4 year old spoils him like no.other I have 3 kids my 3 year gets treated like he's nothing my daughter gets more attention then my 3 year old n now I'm pregnant with my 4th

@jazmin805, i would not take it very personally. is it common in your family to show up to the hospital? it is also busy time and they might have thought that they will see him at christmas in a 10 days. Also, you do not want a lot of them there - germs! I wouldn't bring him to their house now. not at all. Isn't 2 hours enough of a visit? i don't want to sound insensitive, but ppl have lives... anyways, don't be mad at your family

@sabby ..thank you so mucb..and your right..i felt like i couldn't think straight just ki da sad but it will pass

@concrete. the reason i take it personal is because. when ever anyone needs anything thekr always their not talking about me in specific. but just for eachother..or for no reason my sisters and his sisters are ways at eachothers houses it can 2am and their together. .yes when ever someone is in tbe hospital. its like a dang meeting tgat everyone atends and we visit a lot.. we both have a big family and they alllll live withing 40 min.. aunts uncles everyone..but not a single txt or hey im haply for you guys..or nothing. .just my 2 sister's which im glad they came and one of them i dont even like her she dosent like me but in our family it dosent matter when its about the kids..she even came to see him so..yea

@concrete

@sabby i think i will keep my butt home✨ the bright side js i will be comfy breastfeeding and have all my boys things their at reach and even be in pj's ..lol thanks for the advkse ..really🌟

@jazmin805, then I agree with @sabby . If it is common in your family to visit at the hospital, then they should have all come. stay at home for Christmas. enjoy your baby

really good ..except sore..because i felt her stitch me up at the end when she needed 2 more stitch's. she had to stop and poke me again to numb the area..besides that im feeling good thank you 😄

@sabby

Well I'm sorry you had to go through that, not cool at all. Why should you have to bring your newborn baby out in the cold that his mom was referring to, to see her. She's the grandmother and u just gave birth not her. Very insensitive, i would stay home if I were you that's what we are doing because he's gonna be born so close to Christmas. I told all of our family and friends that they can come see him in the hospital but then once we go home we are in lock down because he's gonna be brand new and unvaccinated. They can keep all of their germs to themselves 😒