When your baby's father gives you an excuse as to why he can't do some so simple as buy diapers then says that he will call you back to let you know what he has been going through. Like I care what you are going through in the first place. I have been the main one buying this baby everything they need before they get here with no help from anyone. But yet everyone wants to give me excuses as to why they can't help out with the smallest thing when I ask. Smh. Any they want to know why I don't ask for help more often. 😒
Believe me I don't anymore I shouldn't have but I see now when u know better u do better @pdouse
@babykamya2016, girl you are better than me I would not have help him with anything.
@aubjan, I wish I had at least that. I have been working my butt off to make sure I have money for when the baby get here. And everyone around me is like you are working to much. Slow down. Then who is gonna pay my bills. Smh
I feel you its the same way with my BD but he always begging and asking me for shit. I just stop helping him out like that he can't help me what I need u for@pdouse
My baby's father doesn't do anything his mom is literally helping me with everything bc he doesn't have a job and still lives with her so I understand 😖

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
How/why do you buy a car EVERY year with your tax refund?? I know people can spend their money how they want...no judgement, u can buy 1,000 packs of skittles...but I know 2 ppl who has bought a car EVERY tax season for the last 3 years!! Like stop buying buckets and spend a little more for a better car or put a down payment on one. I just think that's a waste of money. What's one big thing you're buying/doing if you get a refund 🤔 #PayingOffMyCC #DressersForTheKids
@babykamya2016, yes maam that is so true.