Moms; do you think this is mean of me? Where i live its very poor and im struggling to live. But the great is my friend invited me to live with them. Its 16 hours away. Bellas dad wont be coming with because hes on corrections. Shes 1 now and she knows who daddy is and she loves him, sometimes she wants him instead of me. Im just wondering if this is messed up to take her from her dad. He will be coming where im moving when hes off corrections. He says it might be 4 more months. Its a long way from home, and i feel guiltily, but it's necessary because i cant keep living the way I have been.