I'm officially a single mom 💔💔

It's better than being with an abusive man. It'll get easier

@bonniesue Yeah I know I just never saw myself as a single mom ever. I just don't know if I can do this.

Girl you got this! We were made to be strong! Who ever said we needed a man? I still have mine, but sometimes I contemplate. This pregnancy would have been so much easier and less stressful had I sailed out. Some things are better left done by a woman on her own. Believe in yourself ❤️😘

@pikachumama21 thanks for the encouragement but most of the beginning of my pregnancy I was alone, my baby father left me. Then I started dating someone else and then it was hell. Constant fighting arguing it was too much honestly.

@rockeyy11_26_16, are you financially capable of being alone?

@pikachumama21 no I don't have a job and I just had my son 20 days ago. I am going to go back to school so I can get back on my social security checks. If I could just find a stay at home job then maybe I will be okay on my own.

@rockeyy11_26_16, I completely understand. Do what you gotta do! Im still waiting to start my minimum wage job at Kmart, ugh. And my man gets SSI checks for $800 a month. So, I really feel ya. Life sucks. But, we gotta pick ourselves up and keep going ❤️

@pikachumama21 Yeah I am trying but the tuition for the school costs way more than what I can afford especially with my fasfa. I don't have a car and license. I can't even find a stay at home job Amazon is no longer highering people. Where I live there's no buses. Plus I have until the summer time to get out of my mom's house I really don't know what to do or where to start.

You can do it my daughter father was abusive and I'm a single mother Leah is better off with me then seeing me hurt

@nelly1991 true and damn I'm glad you got out while you could.

You can do this. my abusive ex took all the money out of our account when he left. I live with my parents and they took care of us until I started getting child support. I'm hopefully going to start school next year. Not sure what I'm going to do yet. at least i have custody of our son and that lunatic doesn't.

@goodbyelullabye I don't have any money and I may live with my mom but she is not helping me financially. I'm not working so I'm screwed my son's father left when I was 10 weeks pregnant. I started dating someone I could trust but I soon realise I can't trust him at all. But I hope everything works out for the both of you.

i left my daughters dad the second i found out i was pregnant... made up some excuse i was done with him. . moved to another state in with a friend... moved out when my kid was 5 months old. baught my house when she was 3.. dated a guy who left me when i was 3 months pregnant with my son.. they are 10 and 4.. and i just baught 2 new cars. ive had a boyfriend for 2 years now. but i support us financially.... it was waaay easier for me to be by myself to have these kids then stay with the bio dads.. they have no real intrest in my kids. meaning ive blocked them and they are in different states... my so and i are trying for another one.. but honestly i think im ready to get fixed... i dont know. im all over the place right now. lol.. youll be ok. just dont ever give up... can you get on state aid to help you with daycare so you can get a job?. i had to do that at first. oh... im a private and afh caregiver by the way... :)..

@adamsgurl wow that was a lot and wow maybe I could idk

@rockeyy11_26_16 everything works out in the end. mine's starting to get a little better hopefully yours will too ☺

@goodbyelullabye nope it's not

:)...

@adamsgurl ☻