I'll never get to leave him, he wants to guilt me into staying saying I'm being selfish if I leave.…

Don't fall for that shit. If you aren't happy baby won't be happy having to deal with stress of you and BD leave you have ONE life to live @rockeyy11_26_16,

A happy mother is important for a child. Staying somewhere because you're forced or guilted into it will never be good. Trust yourself. Some times you have to get everything in order first quietly then tell them bye. Don't give him time to say anything else. Just leave

@chloeadelle he's not my baby father at all he's just my boyfriend we have only been dating for 5 months now

I agree with @chloeadelle . & @bonniesue, Especially if he isnt the bd. Its not worth the stress at all. Trust me !

hate when men do that.

@bonniesue I hear exactly what you are saying but he's the one helping me out with everything finding a place and job but I'm having no such luck.

@waitingformyuniverse true I just don't know I'm not trying to hear my families mouth about me leaving him.

@js_mom I do too

It's not even about what you're family thinks. Your family isn't in a relationship with him. You are & Ultimately its your life &your decisions for you & your baby.

@waitingformyuniverse I know but they speak so highly of him which pisses me off. like two days ago we were arguing and just before my mom came home he tried to choke me and cover my mouth I couldn't breathe and he wouldn't get off me. I was about to snap but she walked into my room.

@rockeyy11_26_16, 😒 oh no. He's totally not worth it.

@waitingformyuniverse I know he's not but I don't want my mom calling me names we just got back on good terms after she kicked me out. We are on speaking terms because of him.

Why would she call you names. When there's a man treating you like you're not worthy. @rockeyy11_26_16, I don't wanna get into your details too much. You could feel free to message me if you like

@waitingformyuniverse because my mom has always been that way toward me and okay.

Anything a man can help you with you can do on your own. 5 months is no time at all. You don't want to waste a year or more of your life.

@bonniesue true I could but it would be a lot more harder now.