How many mamas nursed exclusively for 12 months and then weaned the child as opposed to letting them wean themselves ? How many months did it take to completely wean? Should I plan for it to take one or two months? I want to stop slowly so I don't get engorged I want it to be as natural as possible . I feel like my boy would nurse for 3 years if he could. He's 10 months now and still going strong.