hey ladies, I want encouraging advice, I got married to my husband in Sept of 2015, my husband and I…

hey ladies, I want encouraging advice, I got married to my husband in Sept of 2015, my husband and I had both previously lived with a roommate, we thought we'd move in with his Aunt who is disabled to save money and help her out. I got pregnant three months into our marriage. I had been told that there was no hope to conceive naturally, that I would need tubal removal and if I wanted children I'd have to do IVF. I was crushed, but the pregnancy, bc I had to quit working bc I was high risk, we were not able to save up for our own place. My baby is three months old now, and his Aunt has really declined in the last year. His family does not believe in nursing homes, so idk how we could leave her alone, but yet I hate loving here, his family is always here, like literally 4 days a week.... what should I do?