Ladies I need some advice. So my SO decided at that last minute that he wants to have his own baby…
Ladies I need some advice. So my SO decided at that last minute that he wants to have his own baby shower so he can invite his people (which I'm totally okay with). The thing is he wants me to do everything. I'm doing my best, but he and his family are not all on the same page and right now they are fighting. 😐 My family is having one for me and everyone (including my friends) is working together on it. I just feel a little overwhelmed because I don't want my BF to feel sad if we don't have his. I'm doing my best though. He wants me to invite my friends, BUT here are some of the issues: 1. my friends are already going to mine 2. a lot of my friends are gay and his mom has a problem with that 🙄 and 3. this is so last minute that i can't just expect people to go to both. :( I just feel bad because it's so last minute. What more can I do?
Melissa·
You could make a reservation at a fun bar or restaurant. It would be casual enough that his friends would come and bring gifts, and your friends (who already went to yours and bought gifts) wouldn't feel obligated to go or buy anything else. The invitation for yours could have the registry, and his wouldn't mention it. His friends who would bring a gift will ask about the registry. Just an idea.
Ingrid·
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@mrs.n2014, @mgs they both sound like good ideas, but I really don't think he'll be up for it. Especially the way his mom is so involved she'll have something negative to say. :( I am going to bring it up though. Thank you ladies.
Ingrid·
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@mrs.n2014, trust me. it's a big mess, I just try to ignore them because I feel like sometimes they manifest the negative that goes on around them.