so talked to my husband last night. he hasn't talked to anyone else outside of our marriage since Wednesday. i told him he was going to lose his family if he didnt stop. Wednesday he had met a girl in person made out with her and admitted if I hadn't texted her he would've went all the way with her. so told him this isn't "playing house" you can't just be doing whatever its not a game. he's now blocking her # she text him constantly afterward for this whole 4 days especially while hes at work. Hes tired of it.

now im not one to give up. i think if we work through our problems we will be okay... I'm just hoping he's being honest and trying to make it work. i asked him if he wanted more children someday. he said only with me. and only if I do. i feel the same way. I'm not gonna jump and get pregnant immediately. baby is only 7 weeks old (as of this coming Tuesday) our oldest is 3. thinking of going on birth control implant that's 3yrs and going to school and making a more financially stable home with a career and work on us as husband and wife and mom n dad to these 2 blessings we already have before possibly having more. what do you ladies think???