am I really gonna have to choose between breastfeeding and sex with my husband.... or will it just…

I breastfeed and have sex everyday lol. I also tore completely so I had to use lube, if dryness is the issue

It does get better! I always ask my hubby to please take it easy & slow And he does! My best advice is to try and talk with your SO!

@bonniesue, I had a c-section so I don't even understand how my vaginally gets affected... and we used Lube and a condom

@mami2d he barely started to put it in and it was horrible... we used Lube and a condom because I'm not back on birth control yet..

Your still have healing their! So please try & take it easy!

Honestly, the Condom made it hurt more, but definitely lube up!

@marcella319, why would the condom make it hurt more?

Well, we got the ribbed kind, so that's probably why.

@marcella319, oh makes sense. ours weren't.

I just don't want out relationship to change! 😳

@rachayrn, just go slow