another night with him getting drunk at work , being an asshole when I pick him up. then wants to hide his phone I asked…

I probably would've reacted 100 times worse than you! There's no reason to hide his phone unless he's got something he doesn't want you to see. My hubby and I don't go through each other's phones all the time but we know if we ever want to, we can at any time. Seems awful fishy to me, I'd be doing some investigating 😐

got his phone and I guess he deleted the messages or whatever he was doing . I went thru call log , texts and nothing . nothing at all. now what do I do ? @twinmommytobe223

What kinda phone is it?

a tiny LG straight talk something I'm not sure @exoticyuri . give me one second

it's a cheap phone

it's a cheap phone

LG Optimus fuel @exoticyuri

I'm not familiar with those.. Well try checking the texts he sent to other people. He might have said something to a guy friend? Or... And this is something I'm not proud of. When I was with my ex and was talking... Just talking to someone else, I thought he'd get mad. So I changed the other persons name to a girls name.. So it would be overlooked if I got a text or call

Uh I would've turned the hell up.

He would not be asleep right now that's for sure.

there should be a way to look at it online through your providers site

nothing at all besides texts to me girl @exoticyuri . I'm like 98 % sure he deleted whatever it was because he had his phone by his side where I couldn't see it then cut it off and said it died.

we have straight talk and they don't keep records of text messages @jadedplumeria 😞

I've been through this with my SO and nothing makes you feel crazier than not finding anything in his phone because he deleted it but knowing something isn't right! I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

I think you have the Answer to your question girl of what to do ! I think you're a valuable person and deserve more than this. Once you reach to this point in your relationship it's time to leave. I warranted you that the moment of feeling lonely will only be temporarily until you get your self together and start loving your own self. And to actually believe you are valuable....He's not worth it at all ... he's not worth your worries.. or your tears... all you need is love for yourself that way you won't trip with another men like him. I been there and it's so hard, it almost felt like I was trapped and no way out of a relationship but I needed to value myself and once I realized that I was taken for granted it was time to planned my way out of that relationship, which wasn't easy he almost killed me if I left him . But hey I'm here alive telling you that you can actually be happy in a relationship but with someone who will love you and respect you! I can promise you that !!!! I wish you the best girl .... remember you're not alone...there is someone watching you from the heavens above that loves you !

Girl do wats best for you and yours . If hes not what you want in your life that that's a question you can only ask yourself . But my suggestion is if there is something he's hiding it's obviously something that will upset you. My hubby has my fingerprint on his iPhone I don't play that. Either your all in or not in at all

Go through all the messages. My ex used to put girls names under guys and text them. He also used to delete all of his messages until one morning while he was asleep, I took his phone and saw messages from one of my best friends 😳 you'll catch him slipping! He just knows you're on to him right now so he's gonna make sure he's on his A game. Let things calm down & then take his phone again when he's least expecting it!

thank you all @kcl21 @viiviian.aiide @peanutsmuma0625 @twinmommytobe223 . he is just the only person I want to be with . like I imagined my whole life with him. but I don't know if I can do this. it didn't used to be like this. just a couple months ago wasn't like this. I just don't know what to do. I love him with all my heart and so does my little girl. I hate this. I really do.

and I will try my damnest @twinmommytobe223 bUT when I see him hiding his phone while he is texting or doing something , it eats me up inside . I can't stand it. I can't just not say anything. ugh .

Sounds like a horrible situation maybe you just need time apart to tell. Don't give up but don't settle for what's going on either . You will figure it out pray to god for clarity he will guide you

Oh yeah I know what you mean. I can't keep my mouth shut so I'd probably end up saying something at the time! I don't understand why guys have to be like that :( @aaaamoney

he shouldn't give you any reason to "trip" or be insecure, if he's got any real manhood. AND you're having his baby, you and baby are ALWAYS #1. My advice, DON'T EVER SETTLE FOR LESS