@arianaj, I've heard that before. My ex isn't like my dad but my husband now is a lot like him in some ways. My dad is a great dad and far better than he was when I was younger. Great dad actually but could be a better husband. He's dogmatic and impatient. Like my husband. And one way in front of company and different behind closed doors. Both are still good people but lack in the husband skills. Lol

@arianaj, oh I don't think he even comes close to my dad lol, I think our only solution is praying and counseling

@Morganmommy79 they say we marry our fathers , Thts why we keep seeing patterns in our men . You have to find out Whts causing it and cut Tht cycle . I find men Tht are like my dad (irresponsible, not trustworthy) & I say I would never want a man like Tht but sum how I always come up with the short end of the stick @morganmommy79

Stay strong , Thts not good behavior for a man , he clearly has sum issues within hisself . Better is coming & everythig happens for a reason ❤️❤️❤️

Oh just be positive girl, and ask God for guidance

@jeremiah27, we are so much in love but have a lot of issues as a blended family. It's a struggle for sure. I rushed in tho because he literally made my insides flutter. We never really planned ahead. I still feel bad for my kids even after 5 years. They didn't choose this. 😔

@morganmommy79, that's what I was thinking too because he treats me the same when we are together and when we are not, I'm starting to think He never loved me 😩... but yes if he ever does change then things would be better for sure and for our children's sake. I'm so sorry about the relationship you are in, that's got to be hard! I'm scared to ever walk into another relationship because for the safety of my children I can't just trust anyone

@dawnrose, yes I agree with her too 🙂

Thank you @princessmama you are right, I'm just so hormonal right now😰

Thank you @courtt you are right, I'm so emotional right now being 2 months pregnant life is so hard for me right now, I've gotten to the point where I've told him if he starts dating someone else that he won't be able to see his son anymore... and I said that because I don't think my heart won't be able to take the fact that he's with someone else,

I left my ex for sev reasons and then cried for weeks and he told me the same things, he moved on and didn't love me anymore. I would cry at any point and cry myself to sleep because our kids suffered. I reminded myself of all he did to me but I also know every man has flaws. I finally moved on and that's when he wanted me back. Go figure. And guess what? My new husband treats me worse than what I thought I had it back then. For my children's sake and the sake of my family I would've worked it out then because now my kids are in a broken home and go through many things. He has no right to treat you that way. And maybe he will change one day and want to work it out. But if not make sure the next guy loves your son and you with his whole heart. I moved on quickly and never thought things through properly because I was lonely and hurting. I'm madly in love with my husband now, was from the beginning, but there are so many issues in a blended family if you rush into things. It's hard on both sides. But your ex would have to change if you work it out or you'd still be in misery and disrespected. I'm sure you'll always have a place in his heart as the mother to his child but if he moved on from u that quick either his heart wasn't really there or he just needs some space to figure out what he does want. Like my ex.... anyway, I'm sorry you're going through this. It's tough. 🤗 hugs 🤗

I strongly agree with @courtt

You don't need him hunny. Try to remember how awful he made you feel

Hang in there girl no woman especially the mother of their child deserves to be disrespected that way. And doing this will show your son he needs to respect women as well your doing what's best for your son and that's what matters