I'm so ready to have a child but for some reason I'm not getting pregnant. My husband and I have…
I'm so ready to have a child but for some reason I'm not getting pregnant. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for a year now and still nothing. Not even a single faint positive. I just feel like I'm a failure as a woman because I miscarried with the only pregnancy I've ever had and now I'm having so much trouble getting pregnant. It's getting really hard to deal with especially around the holidays when I'm around everyone else's kids. My baby would've been 6 months this month. I really just wanna give up but the little sliver of hope that I have keeps me hanging on I guess. I've prayed and prayed to get pregnant and have a baby but nothing. I'm so discouraged, I'm getting depressed and my anxiety is getting bad again. I just need some advice or some kind words, anything to help lift my spirit.
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The most important thing is not to give up. Being so stressed out can actually make the process of actually conceiving longer. I miscarried my twins and it took me a while to be able to get passed what happened but I got pregnant again soon after. Just don't give up hope and try to stay positive.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)
don't let yourself get stressed over it. it makes it harder to get pregnant. breathe and stop trying. just have fun. your time will come honey I promise.
shyausea·
Don't loose hope Hun I had two miscarriages with my first two pregnancys it took me two years to get pregnant and give birth and I now have a five month old little boy I understand the disappointment trust me I've spend so much money on test slowly becoming more and more hopeless and then one day I got a positive and I had to get every test in the store because I was so doubtful , keep your head up anything is possible after a miscarriage your body takes a long time to heal but it will and you will have your baby❣
what helped me was
- a ovulation chart you can download a app on your phone for free I used the first response chart it worked wonders
-also for the first 10 mins after sex don't go to the bathroom lay on your back and wait ten minutes it gives you a better chance to get pregnant
-last thing that could help is deeper positions
don't loose hope you will have your rainbow baby one day👣
Kaitlin Weldon·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Thanks y'all! I appreciate the advice.
Bonnie·
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. i can only imagine the pain you feel. just know we are here for you if you need to chat.
Kaitlin Weldon·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Thank you @barbiebonbon
lacy mcbee·
Мама дочки-младенца
im sorry to hear about your loss.. but i can promise ypu god knows what he is doing... you may want one now! trust me i did. now im pregnant with my 2nd. but god knows when you need it most!. baby duat to you babygirl!
Kaitlin Weldon·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Thank you so much! I'm just gonna wait it out, keep doing what I'm doing but I need to be more positive about things so I'm gonna work on that. I believe that I'll get pregnant when I need it most. I'm just impatient and emotional sometimes.
Alicia Gómez·
В ожидании первенца
I tried ovulation tests by the answer brand. It's like $20 for a pack of 20 tests including a pregnancy test. Which was the best deal since other brands are so expensive and Those worked for me! I got off birth control in October and by November we found out we were expecting. Wait like 24 days before the pregnancy test, after u get your positive ovulation test start trying. The darker the line on the left is, that is the day u ovulate. Good luck!!