i had the same worries. but i was pleasantly surprised by how many things just come with instinct. if i wasn't sure about something i would ask someone who's opinion i valued and trusted and either take their advice or follow my gut and do something else. at that has kept me with a happy healthy baby for the past 3 1/2 months ☺️
You can message me anytime but trust me, you'll just know and the fact that you're already concerned about it means you'll be a good mom! Hang in there and take it one day at a time girl 💕