My husband and I are a younger couple, we have only been married a year. Well, we got caught up in…

considering everyone on this app is trying to have a baby, some of us have been struggling for years and many have lots babies I don't think a discussion of plan b or the like will go over well. It is your choice in the end. but most of us would give anything for a child.

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Only u make that decision. I used plan b for many circumstances over the years. I was terrified to not get it even when I was dreaming of having a baby and buying baby stuff and planning for him but the reality was scary. I'm 32 and finally gave up and quit running to Walgreens. I'm so happy and he means everything to me but I will say we have everything in order and planned and our family has everything we could ever want and my husband and I have been together almost 10years. I would ask ur husband all the little details on his thoughts for raising kids. Cosleeping, working,daycare, baby food, discipline, money ,college, nursery plans all that to make sure ur on the same page my husband and I had 7 years to talk about all that before we married and we r so on the same page and it's amazing.

I agree with barbie. Some of us have been trying for awhile to get pregnant and would do anything to be pregnant. It's your choice, but a baby is a blessing.

never really gonna be a perfect time lol but if god gives you one dont argue!! he works wonders he has just blessed me with my 2nd child today! (: i know i not not absolutly ready considering my daughter is 4 months old. but ya know im not gonna arguem. maybe he has a really good plan for me but i have to have 2 kids before i get there ya know... youll make it babydoll i promise.. he wouldnt send one to you if he knew you couldnt...

barbiebonbon, I'm not trying to offend anyone by asking about Plan B. This is for all types of discussions and advice, for all types of women. The idea is to be open minded and helpful. If it offends you or isn't for you, then there are plenty of other messages. I do have a real question and just need someone to talk to.

txyogagirl thank you, for the tips on the little details. My husband and I have been married for a year and we were together for five years before getting married, we are only 26 though. We have discussed many aspects of raising children and in what way. We are on the same page for just about everything. Money is just a little tight and worrisome because we just moved and started new jobs. I would love to be a stay at home mom only day. I've always been a nanny.

I will say that I understand the fear when it was not planned. My husband and I were only dating for 4 moths before I got pregnant. We then got married, now I'm pregnant again. I have been pregnant our whole relationship (2 years). I will say that 26 isn't young at all. It's actually a great age to have a child. It will never be the perfect time and money will always be a factor, but just really think about it. This app is for those planning, pregnant, and who have kids so I understand why some may be upset and take the post the wrong way. Sit down and talk to your husband. You all have been together for a while, so maybe it's meant to happen for you. If you don't get pregnant and are still not wanting kids, then I would highly recommend birth control! Good luck!

I totally understand. My baby was not planned at all. And I'm 26 too. Not married. Not in the best situation financially. I used plan b in the past. But this time it's with my fiancé. Been with him two plus years. And I know I'll make it somehow. I would discuss it with your husband. It's your decision. Don't base your decision off of what others think though. I feel for moms who can't conceive but this is your life not theirs. Next time just get some birth control. Nuvaring, implanon, Mirena... But this is your decision with your husband as well. All we can do is give advice. Good luck.

I was on birth control for ten years. I had to get off of it because it interfered with a more important medication I need to be on. Usually, we are more careful. I mean, we both love each other to death and this is what we what for our lives together. eventually.

I don't plan to make my final decision based on what people say here. Although, it is nice to talk about it with people who have been through this before. My husband and I have discussed this, literally right after it happened, we are both on the fence about what we want.

How long ago did you stop the birth control? Sometimes that'll take years of being off of it to get prego

I got off of it 9 months ago. My hormones have been so screwed up since then. I've also only had two periods since I got off of birth control.