
So I got told today from my aunt I was not using my head because I got pregnant. Let me just stop anyone who would say that to a 5 month pregnant women, just don't. I am truly blessed with this pregnancy even though I am only 20 I am thankful. A year ago I was told it wasn't even possible for me to have a kid. This is truly a miracle baby and his mommy (me) and his daddy love him very much. We know it will be tough and we know what lies ahead but never will I hear or be told again that I wasn't using my head.
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name

Still trying to wrap my head around all this. Told my boyfriend. He’s just as anxious as i am. Ahhhh.
People are always going to try to push thier opinions and messed up ideas on you but never let them steal your joy sweetie. God does everything for a reason. This blessing just means that he saw something great enough in you to bless you so greatly so be proud of your blessing and live life with as much love and happiness as you can. Congratulations