This is long but I wld like some opinions? :) first let me say this.. I'm still new to this app but I'm getting the hang of things, and i rly rly like it here.. I've never felt so comfortable with so many 'strangers' lol I have no worry to be judged and I feel this is the one place I can give my advice or opinion or even rant and its OKAY!! 😄😘
Next I wld like to introduce myself, my name is Tiffany, I'm 29, married and I have 4 litl babes 8y, 3y, (almost) 2y and 1y, I'm a SAHM and I lose my freaking mind occasionally 😖☕😑😄
With that being said, here is a litl back story to introduce my concern/question/comments..
I had my 8y old (Alexakai) before I met my husband. Bruce (my hubs) and I met Oct 2011, we got preg in Nov 2011 but it was ectopic (good possibility from Mirena IUD) so we had to terminate pregnancy. We got preg with our son Masenn and had him July 2013, had a miscarriage in Jan 2014, and got preg with Jeweliette and had her Dec 2014, got preg with Sturlyng and had him Nov 2015.. After having Jeweliette I hemorrhaged pretty bad and was 'on my way out' but Holly (my nurse) saved me.. (before we had Sturlyng my Dr switched hospitals, I wasn't happy but I wasn't switching) .. went in to have Sturlyng and found out Holly was going to be my nurse so I cried and thanked her for saving my life.. (I had all 4 c sections) when they cut me open they noticed my uterus was 'paper thin', there was a hole the placenta was trying to rip thru and the cord was wrapped twice around his neck.. if I wld have gone into labor we both cld have died.. after we had Sturlyng, I hemorrhaged again but Holly saved my life, again!! Dr said no more babies!! if i get pregnant there's a very good chance baby and I wld both die.
So, my husband got fixed!! problem solved?!
no... Dr says he's seen too many women get pregnant after a vasectomy..
(I'm having some hormone issues) and Dr offered to burn my cervix.. but he wants me to think long and hard on it bc I will Never Be Able to have kids again (there's a difference between not wanting anymore and Can't have anymore) .. even tho he still says no more babies for me, he says it cld be A very emotional experience and there's no reversal..
So After All of That.. I'm curious as to what everyone thinks about the procedure?
I'm on the fence, only bc I know I can be an emotional disaster but I feel like I'm ready 😨😀
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I lost my baby boy and I'm trying to keep my little girl in right now...I guess it's a bit different because you do have 4. Idk I almost died from hemorrhaging with my son, but here o am with my girl 🙈 Idk life's hard
@abeals04, I feel like it wld be A lot safer if I were to also do something to help prevent pregnancy.. and I know he gave me this option since it wld help my hormone issues and help prevent pregnancy. .. I've tried many birth controls and they have all basically made me terribly sick to the point of not being able to move out of bed, so I'm not quite sure how Many more options there are for me (which I have yet to fully look into)
@princessmama i feel a litl young for this type of thing too, however, I have 2 of each and that's perfect! (& I kinda dnt wanna die lol)
My dr told me I shouldn't have anymore either but I'm so young and I refuse to have it taken away from me! My husband and I just have to be very careful 😓
No problem also remember there is other options too if you do have to go through it I'm sorry things have been so rough for you
I would definitely try to find someone who went through it I'm sure there are groups online
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so I'm a mom of a 26 weeker and he's 2 and my boyfriend has a 2 year old as well and we both want a baby but wonder if we should wait because of all of my health issues I had with my son before he and I got together? please no bashing or judging just asking. fair warning my doctors are all on with it too I just have to have my iud removed.
This is NOT happening !!!!!!! I swear I had given up! But I'm 5 days late and I just got my BFP ???
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't h...
Yeah there is adoption there is sergeancy you can have your eggs frozen there is also fostering if you want to have children also my aunt has hormone problems and her dr gave her hormones you may talk with your dr about that it if you're not ready yet just till you feel like your ready they aren't birth control either