The ultrasound tech told me my baby is showing hints as to the baby might having down syndrome. (even though the down syndrome blood test and chromosome 18 blood test came back negative) they said sometimes they can be inaccurate and gave me an option of to not do anything at all, to do additional blood work which is only gonna be 80% accurate or I can do an amniocentesis test which puts the baby at a very low risk of miscarriage but is 100% accurate. they said the baby showing a cyst on the brain, 2 black spots on the brain, a bright spot on the baby's heart, and the baby's nose bone is super short. and they said those are hints as to the baby having it. anyone go through this??? message me please. I've had a miscarriage prior to having my son which showed sets of 3 chromosomes after the fact.. I wanted to do the 3rd option with the amniocentesis test but I just don't know.
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yep @dawnrose. some ppl are going to get different opinion some of us dnt believe in giving ur bby up for adoption just bc @byebltcheb is haven a bad day ..if u layed n bed and had sex u knw the risks why do sum ur not ready for ...u already have 1 child u knw better ...and then u @byebltches. get mad bc some of us have opinions ...like i told u in the mng u sent me u dnt have to explain but if ur gonna lost might as well tell all hahaha
and I know of I did post personal shit like this on fb. I wouldn't tell the whole world I will pick and choose my child depending on a freaking handicap... grow up and love them regardless what is wrong or not with them! you are the one who made it!
you don't know what's going on with my baby or anything bc I do not post such senitive issues on social media like @hernandez said everyone has a view on it. I guess you can take views anyway you want. If you feel that threaten about my questions than so be it, I'll tell you one thing though, you will not ever be trying to put my mouth on straight. you better just block me now. since you aren't able to talk without feeling judgement being passed, or being offended.
@dawnrose, your mouth seriously needs to get put straight along with all these other moms judging on what the fuck I decide to do with the baby
@dawnrose, lol for one, none of yalls business. I was answering a question. a b convo. for 2, you have no idea what it's like to hear your baby might have down syndrome. for 3, I already expected to have to keep the baby because my baby daddy has told me repeatedly he won't sign papers. and that if it did have down syndrome he would want to abort. therefore i know hed be cool with adoption lol thats why i said i was gonna keep it but honestly i dont know its alot to think about your blocked now. bye.
YOU are the one who first stated, you were going to put it up for adoption and IF it had downs you would keep it.
read through my post I wasn't bitching. I know better than to put my real opinion about it on here. or the first thing that came into my head. I was curious so I was asking trying to understand so I wouldn't assume.
@dawnrose, lol. the post was asking if anyone has heard this from their ultrasound tech. yall bitching about if I'm gonna put it up for adoption or not lol.
@hernandez, yeah people post personal things like this and then get mad about others point of viewss. I don't get it.
@dawnrose, good point why post ..there are so many different views on this touchy subject
But ill love my som no matter what. Down syndrome doesnt make any difference.
My son has calcium on his heart they said its a marker for Down syndrome
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, he would want to abort if it had down syndrome
i wouldn't be able to put my baby up for adoption. he / she is an innocent little human being. if you had in mind to have put your baby up for adoption, you should've aborted the minute you found out you were pregnant, when he she was only weeks old . just because there's a possibility of down syndrome should not be an only reason why you don't put them up for adoption. that's unfair. you should keep the baby because you love them. best of luck with your decision and hope your baby doesn't have down syndrome
@hayhayes1, sorry for asking questions, but when you put your whole entire business on a social media site it open it up for everyone to have an opinion on it. best of luck to you and what ever you decide to do.
do not do an amneo it's not worth it bc it's not gonna change anything and there is nothing you can do during pregnancy to make anything different. it's very painful even though they say it's not well it is extremely painful
I don't think I would do the amnio, I wouldn't want to risk possibly miscarrying at all.
Oh. What does he think of the situation? I'm guessing he wants to keep the baby no matter what? If so, at least that shows he cares.
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, I'm having issues with having the baby daddy sign adoption papers. so
I am all over the place with thoughts. I don't know what I'm doing. and it's none of yalls business thank you
honestly all yalls opinions on my reasonings for keeping and not is none of yalls concern. my question was if anyone has gone through this before.
I would say get the amino done and decide from there. Ultrasounds can be wrong. I follow a Facebook page of a couple looking to adopt a baby- if that day comes and you've made up your mind that that's the option you want to go with I could send you their info, or you could find someone local. I hope everything works out for you and for baby.
but either way if your not ready for another baby, then that is the best thing to do is give him or her up for adoption even if baby has downs ...
so not trying to sound like a bitch. but if your child has downs, and went up for adoption he or she wouldn't really know that he or she was put up for adoption. he or she wouldn't fully understand. but if he or she came out with no problems then I think they would wonder why you gave them up more than if your child came out with downs would...
wouldn't a normal baby feel the same way? them? r u having twins? I wish I was having twins lol
because of how bad I would feel because they wouldn't understand as to why their parents gave them up. idk. I was gonna keep them but I seriously don't know. I don't know what I am going to do
that's my question.. if you going to give it up for adoption, why would you change your mind if it has downs? it'll be a whole lot harder to care for.
I'd do the amniocentesis. why would you only keep it if it has downs?
I would do the testing just to be prepared
can i ask why were u thinken putting bby up for adoption
@leahsmommi, I was planning on putting the baby up for adoption. but if it has down syndrome I'm going to keep them.
Well I guess my first question is would you abort the pregnancy if baby has it?
I agree with @dawnrose and @hernandez . if you out your business out asking on a subject then people are going to give there opinions. and like she said if your grown enough to lay down and have sex you should know the possibilities and take care of the responsibility.