Well of course once again, arguing with my mother.. she doesn't like my husbands side of the family and doesn't want me…

Well of course once again, arguing with my mother.. she doesn't like my husbands side of the family and doesn't want me around them or my children, she doesn't want me near them or my husband, including my husbands father, step mother and sister. Never understood why. But she has to face the fact I can't please everyone just because she doesn't like them doesn't mean i shouldn't like them either. I love them and adore his family, absolutely loving and caring people. I couldn't ask for better in laws. But anyways as for me to go along with my story.. I'm visiting my mother right now and usually for big holidays me and my husband would go to both thanksgivings (it's only fair) my family's is at 4:30 and his family's is at 12:30. It is perfect timing to make it for both. But anyways, I'm visiting my mothers for my little girl to see her grandma and I was making a shopping list for tomorrow because that's pay day and I asked her if I could borrow a couple of spices so I don't have to buy new ones when I only need a teaspoon or 5 different spices and why buy new when she has them and never uses them, I mean I don't mind to buy them they aren't a problem just asked nicely and easier way to do that with saving money and my mother goes "fuck no you aren't using my spices and shit to make food to take it down there to "them kind of people" she also says " I can't believe you are going down there to be around them kind of people" she never liked them and all they are is nice to my parents they've never done anything to my parents to give them a reason to not like my husbands family and parents. I don't understand it. My mother also told me if they show up to the hospital when baby #2 comes ( I'm due June 4th ) then she won't come. It's so immature of her to act this way. She expects me to keep them out of my children's life and mine and even my Husbands life and that's HIS PARENTS. there is no reason to block anyone out of anyone's life. For the simple fact she needs to get over her mad spell and get along. I'm tired of her being this way towards them and me and my husband and my kids.