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Deliaha Day
Deliaha Day
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Idk what to do at this point. I'm hurting a lot I have so much pain and pressure in my vagina and ass. My back is…

Idk what to do at this point. I'm hurting a lot I have so much pain and pressure in my vagina and ass. My back is hurting me and I'm having contractions every 2-3 minutes. Everytime I go to the hospital they send me home. I'm in so much pain I'm crying with full blown tears now. I can not take it anymore my next appointment is Wednesday and my due date is Saturday. I am 3cm dilated but I know I'm dilated further now. They still won't admit me into the hospital I can not take this pain anymore. Plus because of my slightly tilted uterus so it would be hard for my water to break on its own. Help me?

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blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

Мама сына-младенца

@babybue16 I have a slightly tilted uterus so they said it would be hard for it to break. I would go but I don't want to be sent home with all this pain and pressure.

babybue16

B

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@rockeyy11_26_16, I'd still go. Maybe being persistent will work. Why won't your water break on its own?

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@babybue16 I wish they won't keep me at all. I doubt I would have him in my shower if my water won't break on it's own.

babybue16

B

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I'd go again if you are in that much pain. You are full term now so I don't see why they wouldn't keep you, give you some pitocin, and start your epi if you are already dilated and in so much pain. You're going to end up having that baby in your bath tub because they are making you feel like you can't go in.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

Мама сына-младенца

@dawnrose me too and thank you.

lakota-winyan

dawn

well u hope you feel better and that baby starts taking action and decides to come soon.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

Мама сына-младенца

@dawnrose I thought it did yesterday and it didn't. They told me it would be hard for it to break on its own. Yes. it does sound like a fucked up hospital.

lakota-winyan

dawn

sounds like a fucked up hospital

lakota-winyan

dawn

just tell them your water broke they I have to hook you up and check you. hopefully keep you.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

Мама сына-младенца

@beebaby I'm in so much pain nothing works. A hot shower won't work and I can barely lay down, and I can barely sit. I just can't do either one for too long.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

Мама сына-младенца

@beebaby I would but I'm not trying to here oh your not ready yet and they send me home. I'm not trying to go through that again.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

Мама сына-младенца

@beebaby I know but this is like the worst pain I've ever been in nothing is helping at all.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@anmlopez no not really I'm registered at this hospital and all my stuff is at this hospital already and it's closer to me.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@anmlopez yes I told them they said it doesn't seem like anything.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@babybue16 yesterday night

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@beebaby I have been in this pain for weeks I can not take it anymore.

babybue16

B

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When was the last time you went?

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@starienite every time I go they call my doctor she doesn't say shit to them. Half the time they can never reach her. I'm tired of this I be having chest pains with my contractions I don't even think that's normal.

starienite

Somer

Мама двоих (младенец)

Go in and tell them to call your doctor. I went in, was only 3 cm at 1am. I was in tears. My doctor told them to keep me no had him at 10am.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@alisuemommy they say some moms can feel when they're dilating I have this pinching feeling in my pelvic area area so that can be it.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@lizibear84 it doesn't matter what I say and do they won't keep me because I'm not in active labor like wtf is active labor if my can't break on its own.

alisuemommy

Reanna

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how do u know you're dilated more?

lizibear84

Elizabeth Hebert

I would go. Contractions are close enough, and if they're making you cry in pain it can slow down progress. You progress faster when you're relaxed. I threatened to tie myself to the bed if they didn't keep me because I wasn't dilating (found out hours later that I was having trouble of dilating on my own due to scarring), but my contractions were making me cry and were about 2-3 minutes apart. I went on morphine rest for 4 hours, and only then did I start to slowly dilate.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@beebaby okay then so until then I'm stuck and there's nothing I can do.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@beebaby see that's why I'm not going in anymore and my ob never calls me back at all so I don't want to call anyone anymore I just want this baby out.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@beebaby I have been going since I was 32 weeks pregnant I'm 39 weeks and 1 day now.

blessedw2kids

Deliaha Day

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@babybump6 they told me I'm not in active labor to not come in. I can not deal anymore.

babybump6

jacklyn gonzaga

i would go in. its worth a try. it may be time.

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