Girl from ur mouth to gods ears 😂 @morganmommy79

@bria, he needs to make you his wife and keep you forever. 😉

Girl thank u❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. We actually aren't even married and it used to really bother me but now I'm like whatever 😑 @morganmommy79

@bria, aww thank you! You are too or you wouldn't still be where you are dealing with the hurt. 😘 oh and tell him he has a beautiful wife. I looked at your pictures. Seriously, what's he thinking? 🤔

You're amazing seriously !!❤️💋 @morganmommy79

@bria, sending hugs your way!!! 🤗🤗🤗 and my hubby knows he's just transitioning from what he used to be to what he needs to be. I'm very patient. ❤️

@morganmommy79,

Ugh thank you so much, it's so relieving to have some good advice !! You are 100% right. ❤️❤️❤️❤️I could hug you !!!! Your husband is so lucky to have a woman like you! Hope he knows that!!!

@bria, you can handle more than u can imagine. You already have. Moms are super strong. We shouldn't have to be at times but we do it anyway because we are the most selfless people on earth. Try finding a way to confront your husband without anger and work things out. Let him know you love him and your family and even though it hurts like hell that you're willing to walk through hell to save it. He needs to open up and explain why he's doing what he's doing. I don't think he really wants to see his daughter through visitation. Ask what his needs are and what his wants are. Meet them when u can even if you don't feel like it. We can't base our life on feelings or we wouldn't be who we are. Let's be real. 😌 I'm still learning this. He'll eventually follow suit when he sees the change that needs to be. (If he's really a good man) 😊 face it, women are natural leaders, men aren't. They need a guide to follow. one thing i did with my ex was he knew porn really crushed me as a woman, as his wife. So when I left for groceries one night I left a note on the tv and all it said was, "please don't hurt me. I love you" he said that spoke volumes to him and really made him think about what he was doing to our relationship and to my feelings. You'll figure this out. I know you will. 😘

@morganmommy79, thank you!! So much !!! I needed that ❤️❤️❤️. I am trying to see *certain* things from his side. But those are the things I am willing to move past, because I do things wrong too. Nobody is perfect and a relationship has ups and downs. Unfortunately, there are things he does and allows that are so inexcusable and he's hidden from me majority of the time and it rears its ugly head here and there. Mainly the only time I find proof is if I get to it before he deletes it on his phone. I hope he sees how good he has it soon because idk how much more I can take

@bria, ^^^

bria @ I hate this for you. I've been through it and done it. I'm guilty and it DAMAGES families. I waited for 7 years before I called my ex out on what he did. I kept it in that long!!! I tried denying it. But it was real. Then once I called him out I did it. Don't let it get that far. Now we are divorced sharing our two kids who suffer the most from this. I cry all the time because I only see my daughter two weekends a month. My son and my husband (his stepdad) don't get along. It's a constant battle. If I could go back I would realize I'm not perfect and he isn't either. I would call him out on it and fix what we could. I would get rid of all temptation for either of us and save our family. I'm crazy in love with my husband now. And no matter how moody he gets with me he's my baby's daddy and I'm not allowing us to fall apart. Not this time. I'll sacrifice my needs and wants before I go through this again and break apart my family. It hurts. I'm not saying you should stay and deal, that hurts too. But before you leave call him out WITH PROOF and find ways to work it out if you love him. You don't want to share that baby with another woman later on. Trust me. He needs to realize what he's doing and what he's going to lose. And quickly before it erupts into a bitter divorce with children involved. I'm so sorry... praying this all works out for you and your beautiful baby.

It's cheating irregardless. They are in a relationship with you and not that other individual. There is not need or reason why they need to be confiding in any other woman. Coming from past experience.

So true 😢 i don't get it. Like I know I'm not perfect but I am so good. Too good for this I'll tell you that much 💯. I keep wishing and hoping that things will get better. In spite of everything I still love him and probably love him even more now than ever since we had our beautiful baby. I wish I would have known them what I know now 😑

Girl only you know how much you can handle as women and mothers we deserve to be treated good and not disrespected. I know you want to work out out for you child but if your not good the baby won't be good. They pick up on our energy @bria

Kid you not @morganmommy79 @wisky80wifey just went through my SO phone & found out he lied to me last weekend, about his brother telling him that him & his gf (who just had a baby too) were going to their moms house .. I feel stupid because I totally believed my SO and didn't even think twice about it. If he's lying Bc of what I think, I hope I find out. Cuz I'll be leaving ASAP. But even if not, why did he lie to me? How am I suppose to believe anything 😟 when I find lies

@bria, agree!!! @wisky80wifey that's awful. I feel so bad for you. I was married 11 years and he was into porn and had lust issues etc so it was easy for me to get emotionally involved with men that complemented me and just listened to me. My ex only wanted me for sex (it seemed) I regret it. My ex had his share of regrets but had I not been involved other places emotionally I could've paid attn to my marriage before it fell apart. Now I have 2 kids in a broken home back n forth with shared parenting. And I love my husband with all my heart and I'm so glad we met but my ex treated me better and sometimes you don't see things till it's too late. When you think it's bad it could be worse. Doesn't excuse anything. If I could go back I wouldn't even have a phone. That's why now I'm very careful. And with a baby on the way it's not happening again. My family will be a family. 😔 I love them too much to be so careless. Lesson learned. It's not worth it

I'm sorry girl, it's so painful 😟. I understand completely. It happened to me in my current relationship too much. A lot before and while I was pregnant and some of it I didn't find out until recently. I feel like it ruined my relationship because I feel like it was all a lie. I try to work it out for my daughter but idk honestly, don't think it will ever be the same 😪. My daily struggle

@bria

Oh it's the absolute worse ! My husband did it to me just recently what what hurt even more he was doing it while we were in the process of trying to see if our unborn child even had a chance to be born and I found out on the day we had to make a decision to end the pregnancy or not. Everyone is saying I should give him another chance but all I see when I see him are those text messages 😒 ...and at least you learned from your mistake. Sometimes it's hard to fight the temptation especially when your pissed trust me I'm fighting right now to not be petty and do what he did to me @morganmommy79

Emotional cheating is sometimes worse 😕 @wisky80wifey @morganmommy79

@wisky80wifey, I've been through it all and I've done emotional cheating. It was wrong and I regret every second of it. Why I'm divorced. I refuse to do it to my new husband. But even tho he's mean sometimes I love him so much I wouldn't even think about it. It hurts. It destroys marriages. It's just wrong.

I personally would feel a little insecure about it but as you said you don't want to request him to not be friends with her because you came around but at the same time you are his wife and you can request whatever you want and he will have to be ok with it ..your role as a wife is more important than a friendship but I can play devils advocate in this one @mrs.n2014

I don't think it's that type but at the same time would you be okay with your husband confiding in her and talking about you to her @mrs.n2014. that's weird and inappropriate especially if you later have to look her in her face not knowing she knows your business. I agree, I don't mind my hub having female friends but that's a line you don't cross in my opinion @mrs.n2014

Exactly! A man has no business confiding in another woman about what he needs to be talking you his wife about! @morganmommy79 people don't believe there is a such thing as emotional cheating and I think that's is the worst of all 😞

right @beebaby

I say single anybody lol because your mans friends can be his worst enemy and will encourage them to do other things they shouldn't @bonniesue @beebaby

No! Past experiences here, too. It's not about trust. When you're husband is confiding in and texting another woman about your marriage etc it's called emotional cheating. I don't do it to him either.

It says single women but I think it should say all women. Married, single, divorced, whatever.

I think everyone's limits/boundaries are different. But I wouldn't be comfortable with it. Especially if it's a "new friend" from past experiences