Ok last night I got checked 3 times. I know bleeding is ok. How much is too much?

Ok ladies I need your help.
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OK here's what I can see.
ok ladies, truth time!!! how much weight have you gained and how far along are you? My doctor basically said I was a fat ass because I have gained to much but I always feel hungry so I eat.

I seen this on my fb ladies ok question to you mommies is this ok for you little girl?
Spotting is cool. Actively bleeding, enough to fill a pad is not cool